<h2><SPAN name="Page_71"></SPAN>CHAPTER V.</h2>
<h2>OUR WEDDING JOURNEY.</h2>
<p>My engagement was a season of doubt and conflict—doubt
as to the wisdom of changing a girlhood of
freedom and enjoyment for I knew not what, and conflict
because the step I proposed was in opposition to
the wishes of all my family. Whereas, heretofore,
friends were continually suggesting suitable matches for
me and painting the marriage relation in the most dazzling
colors, now that state was represented as beset
with dangers and disappointments, and men, of all God's
creatures as the most depraved and unreliable. Hard
pressed, I broke my engagement, after months of
anxiety and bewilderment; suddenly I decided to renew
it, as Mr. Stanton was going to Europe as a delegate to
the World's Anti-slavery Convention, and we did not
wish the ocean to roll between us.</p>
<p>Thursday, May 10, 1840, I determined to take the
fateful step, without the slightest preparation for a wedding
or a voyage; but Mr. Stanton, coming up the
North River, was detained on "Marcy's Overslaugh,"
a bar in the river where boats were frequently stranded
for hours. This delay compelled us to be married on
Friday, which is commonly supposed to be a most unlucky
day. But as we lived together, without more
than the usual matrimonial friction, for nearly a half
a century, had seven children, all but one of whom are
still living, and have been well sheltered, clothed, and
<SPAN name="Page_72"></SPAN>fed, enjoying sound minds in sound bodies, no one
need
be afraid of going through the marriage ceremony on
Friday for fear of bad luck. The Scotch clergyman
who married us, being somewhat superstitious, begged
us to postpone it until Saturday; but, as we were to
sail early in the coming week, that was impossible.
That point settled, the next difficulty was to persuade
him to leave out the word "obey" in the marriage
ceremony. As I obstinately refused to obey one with
whom I supposed I was entering into an equal relation,
that point, too, was conceded. A few friends were
invited to be present and, in a simple white evening
dress, I was married. But the good priest avenged
himself for the points he conceded, by keeping us on
the rack with a long prayer and dissertation on the
sacred institution for one mortal hour. The Rev.
Hugh Maire was a little stout fellow, vehement in manner
and speech, who danced about the floor, as he laid
down the law, in the most original and comical manner.
As Mr. Stanton had never seen him before, the
hour to him was one of constant struggle to maintain
his equilibrium. I had sat under his ministrations for
several years, and was accustomed to his rhetoric, accent,
and gestures, and thus was able to go through
the ordeal in a calmer state of mind.</p>
<p>Sister Madge, who had stood by me bravely through
all my doubts and anxieties, went with us to New
York and saw us on board the vessel. My sister
Harriet and her husband, Daniel C. Eaton, a merchant
in New York city, were also there. He and I had had
for years a standing game of "tag" at all our partings,
and he had vowed to send me "tagged" to Europe.
I was equally determined that he should not. Accord<SPAN name="Page_73"></SPAN>ingly,
I had a desperate chase after him all over the
vessel, but in vain. He had the last "tag" and
escaped. As I was compelled, under the circumstances,
to conduct the pursuit with some degree of decorum,
and he had the advantage of height, long limbs, and
freedom from skirts, I really stood no chance whatever.
However, as the chase kept us all laughing, it helped to
soften the bitterness of parting.<br/></p>
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<p>Fairly at sea, I closed another chapter of my life, and
my thoughts turned to what lay in the near future.
James G. Birney, the anti-slavery nominee for the
presidency of the United States, joined us in New York,
and was a fellow-passenger on the Montreal for England.
He and my husband were delegates to the World's
Anti-slavery Convention, and both interested themselves
in my anti-slavery education. They gave me
books to read, and, as we paced the deck day by day, the
question was the chief theme of our conversation.</p>
<p>Mr. Birney was a polished gentleman of the old
school, and was excessively proper and punctilious in
manner and conversation. I soon perceived that he
thought I needed considerable toning down before
reaching England. I was quick to see and understand
that his criticisms of others in a general way and the
drift of his discourses on manners and conversation had
a nearer application than he intended I should discover,
though he hoped I would profit by them. I was always
grateful to anyone who took an interest in my improvement,
so I laughingly told him, one day, that he
need not make his criticisms any longer in that roundabout
way, but might take me squarely in hand and
polish me up as speedily as possible. Sitting in the
saloon at night after a game of chess, in which, per<SPAN name="Page_74"></SPAN>chance,
I had been the victor, I felt complacent and
would sometimes say:</p>
<p>"Well, what have I said or done to-day open to
criticism?"</p>
<p>So, in the most gracious manner, he replied on one
occasion:</p>
<p>"You went to the masthead in a chair, which I think
very unladylike. I heard you call your husband
'Henry' in the presence of strangers, which is not permissible
in polite society. You should always say 'Mr.
Stanton.' You have taken three moves back in this
game."</p>
<p>"Bless me!" I replied, "what a catalogue in one
day! I fear my Mentor will despair of my ultimate
perfection."</p>
<p>"I should have more hope," he replied, "if you
seemed to feel my rebukes more deeply, but you evidently
think them of too little consequence to be much
disturbed by them."</p>
<p>As he found even more fault with my husband, we
condoled with each other and decided that our friend
was rather hypercritical and that we were as nearly perfect
as mortals need be for the wear and tear of ordinary
life. Being both endowed with a good degree of
self-esteem, neither the praise nor the blame of mankind
was overpowering to either of us. As the voyage
lasted eighteen days—for we were on a sailing vessel—we
had time to make some improvement, or, at least,
to consider all friendly suggestions.</p>
<p>At this time Mr. Birney was very much in love with
Miss Fitzhugh of Geneseo, to whom he was afterward
married. He suffered at times great depression of
spirits, but I could always rouse him to a sunny mood
<SPAN name="Page_75"></SPAN>by introducing her name. That was a theme of
which
he never grew weary, and, while praising her, a halo of
glory was to him visible around my head and I was
faultless for the time being. There was nothing in our
fellow-passengers to break the monotony of the voyage.
They were all stolid, middle-class English people, returning
from various parts of the world to visit their
native land.</p>
<p>When out of their hearing, Mr. Birney used to ridicule
them without mercy; so, one day, by way of making
a point, I said with great solemnity, "Is it good
breeding to make fun of the foibles of our fellow-men,
who have not had our advantages of culture and education?"
He felt the rebuke and blushed, and never
again returned to that subject. I am sorry to say I
was glad to find him once in fault.</p>
<p>Though some amusement, in whatever extraordinary
way I could obtain it, was necessary to my existence,
yet, as it was deemed important that I should thoroughly
understand the status of the anti-slavery movement
in my own country, I spent most of my time
reading and talking on that question. Being the wife
of a delegate to the World's Convention, we all felt it
important that I should be able to answer whatever
questions I might be asked in England on all phases of
the slavery question.</p>
<p>The captain, a jolly fellow, was always ready to second
me in my explorations into every nook and cranny
of the vessel. He imagined that my reading was distasteful
and enforced by the older gentlemen, so he was
continually planning some diversion, and often invited
me to sit with him and listen to his experiences of a
sailor's life.</p>
<p><SPAN name="Page_76"></SPAN>But all things must end in this mortal life,
and our
voyage was near its termination, when we were becalmed
on the Southern coast of England and could not
make more than one knot an hour. When within sight
of the distant shore, a pilot boat came along and offered
to take anyone ashore in six hours. I was so delighted
at the thought of reaching land that, after much persuasion,
Mr. Stanton and Mr. Birney consented to go.
Accordingly we were lowered into the boat in an armchair,
with a luncheon consisting of a cold chicken, a
loaf of bread, and a bottle of wine, with just enough
wind to carry our light craft toward our destination.
But, instead of six hours, we were all day trying to
reach the land, and, as the twilight deepened and the
last breeze died away, the pilot said: "We are now
two miles from shore, but the only way you can reach
there to-night is by a rowboat."</p>
<p>As we had no provisions left and nowhere to sleep,
we were glad to avail ourselves of the rowboat. It was
a bright moonlight night, the air balmy, the waters
smooth, and, with two stout oarsmen, we glided swiftly
along. As Mr. Birney made the last descent and
seated himself, doubtful as to our reaching shore, turning
to me he said: "The woman tempted me and I did
leave the good ship." However, we did reach the shore
at midnight and landed at Torquay, one of the loveliest
spots in that country, and our journey to Exeter the
next day lay through the most beautiful scenery in
England.</p>
<p>As we had no luggage with us, our detention by
customs officers was brief, and we were soon conducted
to a comfortable little hotel, which we found in the
morning was a bower of roses. I had never imagined
<SPAN name="Page_77"></SPAN>anything so beautiful as the drive up to Exeter
on the
top of a coach, with four stout horses, trotting at the
rate of ten miles an hour. It was the first day of June,
and the country was in all its glory. The foliage was of
the softest green, the trees were covered with blossoms,
and the shrubs with flowers. The roads were perfect;
the large, fine-looking coachman, with his white gloves
and reins, his rosy face and lofty bearing and the postman
in red, blowing his horn as we passed through
every village, made the drive seem like a journey in
fairyland. We had heard that England was like a garden
of flowers, but we were wholly unprepared for such
wealth of beauty.</p>
<p>In Exeter we had our first view of one of the great
cathedrals in the Old World, and we were all deeply impressed
with its grandeur. It was just at the twilight
hour, when the last rays of the setting sun, streaming
through the stained glass windows, deepened the shadows
and threw a mysterious amber light over all. As
the choir was practicing, the whole effect was heightened
by the deep tones of the organ reverberating
through the arched roof, and the sound of human
voices as if vainly trying to fill the vast space above.
The novelty and solemnity of the surroundings roused
all our religious emotions and thrilled every nerve in
our being. As if moved by the same impulse to linger
there a while, we all sat down, silently waiting for something
to break the spell that bound us. Can one wonder
at the power of the Catholic religion for centuries,
with such accessories to stimulate the imagination to a
blind worship of the unknown?</p>
<p>Sitting in the hotel that evening and wanting something
to read, we asked the waiter for the daily papers.
<SPAN name="Page_78"></SPAN>As there was no public table or drawing room for
guests, but each party had its own apartment, we
needed a little change from the society of each other.
Having been, as it were, shut from the outside world
for eighteen days, we had some curiosity to see whether
our planet was still revolving from west to east. At
the mention of papers in the plural number, the attendant
gave us a look of surprise, and said he would get
"it." He returned saying that the gentleman in No.
4 had "it," but he would be through in fifteen
minutes. Accordingly, at the end of that time, he
brought the newspaper, and, after we had had it the
same length of time, he came to take it to another
party. At our lodging house in London, a paper was
left for half an hour each morning, and then it was taken
to the next house, thus serving several families of
readers.</p>
<p>The next day brought us to London. When I first
entered our lodging house in Queen Street, I thought
it the gloomiest abode I had ever seen. The arrival of
a delegation of ladies, the next day, from Boston and
Philadelphia, changed the atmosphere of the establishment,
and filled me with delightful anticipations of
some new and charming acquaintances, which I fully
realized in meeting Emily Winslow, Abby Southwick,
Elizabeth Neal, Mary Grew, Abby Kimber, Sarah
Pugh, and Lucretia Mott. There had been a split in
the American anti-slavery ranks, and delegates came
from both branches, and, as they were equally represented
at our lodgings, I became familiar with the whole
controversy. The potent element which caused the
division was the woman question, and as the Garrisonian
branch maintained the right of women to speak
<SPAN name="Page_79"></SPAN>and vote in the conventions, all my sympathies
were
with the Garrisonians, though Mr. Stanton and Mr.
Birney belonged to the other branch, called political
abolitionists. To me there was no question so important
as the emancipation of women from the dogmas
of the past, political, religious, and social. It
struck me as very remarkable that abolitionists, who
felt so keenly the wrongs of the slave, should be so oblivious
to the equal wrongs of their own mothers, wives,
and sisters, when, according to the common law, both
classes occupied a similar legal status.</p>
<p>Our chief object in visiting England at this time was
to attend the World's Anti-slavery Convention, to meet
June 12, 1840, in Freemasons' Hall, London. Delegates
from all the anti-slavery societies of civilized
nations were invited, yet, when they arrived, those
representing associations of women were rejected.
Though women were members of the National Anti-slavery
Society, accustomed to speak and vote in all
its conventions, and to take an equally active part with
men in the whole anti-slavery struggle, and were there
as delegates from associations of men and women, as
well as those distinctively of their own sex, yet all alike
were rejected because they were women. Women, according
to English prejudices at that time, were excluded
by Scriptural texts from sharing equal dignity
and authority with men in all reform associations; hence
it was to English minds pre-eminently unfitting that
women should be admitted as equal members to a
World's Convention. The question was hotly debated
through an entire day. My husband made a very
eloquent speech in favor of admitting the women
delegates.</p>
<p><SPAN name="Page_80"></SPAN>When we consider that Lady Byron, Anna
Jameson,
Mary Howitt, Mrs. Hugo Reid, Elizabeth Fry, Amelia
Opie, Ann Green Phillips, Lucretia Mott, and many
remarkable women, speakers and leaders in the Society
of Friends, were all compelled to listen in silence to the
masculine platitudes on woman's sphere, one may
form some idea of the indignation of unprejudiced
friends, and especially that of such women as
Lydia Maria Child, Maria Chapman, Deborah Weston,
Angelina and Sarah Grimké, and Abby Kelly,
who were impatiently waiting and watching on
this side, in painful suspense, to hear how their
delegates were received. Judging from my own feelings,
the women on both sides of the Atlantic must
have been humiliated and chagrined, except as these
feelings were outweighed by contempt for the shallow
reasoning of their opponents and their comical pose
and gestures in some of the intensely earnest flights of
their imagination.</p>
<p>The clerical portion of the convention was most violent
in its opposition. The clergymen seemed to have
God and his angels especially in their care and keeping,
and were in agony lest the women should do or say
something to shock the heavenly hosts. Their all-sustaining
conceit gave them abundant assurance that their
movements must necessarily be all-pleasing to the
celestials whose ears were open to the proceedings of
the World's Convention. Deborah, Huldah, Vashti,
and Esther might have questioned the propriety of
calling it a World's Convention, when only half of
humanity was represented there; but what were their
opinions worth compared with those of the Rev. A.
Harvey, the Rev. C. Stout, or the Rev. J. Burnet, who,
<SPAN name="Page_81"></SPAN>Bible in hand, argued woman's subjection,
divinely decreed
when Eve was created.</p>
<p>One of our champions in the convention, George
Bradburn, a tall thick-set man with a voice like thunder,
standing head and shoulders above the clerical representatives,
swept all their arguments aside by declaring
with tremendous emphasis that, if they could prove
to him that the Bible taught the entire subjection of
one-half of the race to the other, he should consider
that the best thing he could do for humanity would be
to bring together every Bible in the universe and make
a grand bonfire of them.</p>
<p>It was really pitiful to hear narrow-minded bigots,
pretending to be teachers and leaders of men, so cruelly
remanding their own mothers, with the rest of womankind,
to absolute subjection to the ordinary masculine
type of humanity. I always regretted that the women
themselves had not taken part in the debate before the
convention was fully organized and the question of
delegates settled. It seemed to me then, and does now,
that all delegates with credentials from recognized societies
should have had a voice in the organization of the
convention, though subject to exclusion afterward.
However, the women sat in a low curtained seat like a
church choir, and modestly listened to the French, British,
and American Solons for twelve of the longest days
in June, as did, also, our grand Garrison and Rogers in
the gallery. They scorned a convention that ignored
the rights of the very women who had fought, side by
side, with them in the anti-slavery conflict. "After battling
so many long years," said Garrison, "for the liberties
of African slaves, I can take no part in a convention
that strikes down the most sacred rights of all women."
<SPAN name="Page_82"></SPAN>After coming three thousand miles to speak on the
subject
nearest his heart, he nobly shared the enforced
silence of the rejected delegates. It was a great act of
self-sacrifice that should never be forgotten by women.</p>
<p>Thomas Clarkson was chosen president of the convention
and made a few remarks in opening, but he soon
retired, as his age and many infirmities made all public
occasions too burdensome, and Joseph Sturge, a Quaker,
was made chairman. Sitting next to Mrs. Mott,
I said:</p>
<p>"As there is a Quaker in the chair now, what could
he do if the spirit should move you to speak?"</p>
<p>"Ah," she replied, evidently not believing such a
contingency possible, "where the spirit of the Lord is,
there is liberty."</p>
<p>She had not much faith in the sincerity of abolitionists
who, while eloquently defending the natural rights
of slaves, denied freedom of speech to one-half the people
of their own race. Such was the consistency of an
assemblage of philanthropists! They would have been
horrified at the idea of burning the flesh of the distinguished
women present with red-hot irons, but the
crucifixion of their pride and self-respect, the humiliation
of the spirit, seemed to them a most trifling matter.
The action of this convention was the topic of discussion,
in public and private, for a long time, and stung
many women into new thought and action and gave
rise to the movement for women's political equality
both in England and the United States.</p>
<p>As the convention adjourned, the remark was heard
on all sides, "It is about time some demand was made
for new liberties for women." As Mrs. Mott and I
walked home, arm in arm, commenting on the incidents
<SPAN name="Page_83"></SPAN>of the day, we resolved to hold a convention as
soon as
we returned home, and form a society to advocate the
rights of women. At the lodging house on Queen
Street, where a large number of delegates had apartments,
the discussions were heated at every meal, and
at times so bitter that, at last, Mr. Birney packed his
valise and sought more peaceful quarters. Having
strongly opposed the admission of women as delegates
to the convention it was rather embarrassing to meet
them, during the intervals between the various sessions,
at the table and in the drawing room.</p>
<p>These were the first women I had ever met who believed
in the equality of the sexes and who did not
believe in the popular orthodox religion. The acquaintance
of Lucretia Mott, who was a broad, liberal
thinker on politics, religion, and all questions of reform,
opened to me a new world of thought. As we walked
about to see the sights of London, I embraced every
opportunity to talk with her. It was intensely gratifying
to hear all that, through years of doubt, I had dimly
thought, so freely discussed by other women, some of
them no older than myself—women, too, of rare intelligence,
cultivation, and refinement. After six weeks'
sojourn under the same roof with Lucretia Mott, whose
conversation was uniformly on a high plane, I felt that
I knew her too well to sympathize with the orthodox
Friends, who denounced her as a dangerous woman because
she doubted certain dogmas they fully believed.</p>
<p>As Mr. Birney and my husband were invited to speak
all over England, Scotland, and Ireland, and we were
uniformly entertained by orthodox Friends, I had
abundant opportunity to know the general feeling
among them toward Lucretia Mott. Even Elizabeth
<SPAN name="Page_84"></SPAN>Fry seemed quite unwilling to breathe the same
atmosphere
with her. During the six weeks that many of
us remained in London after the convention we were
invited to a succession of public and private breakfasts,
dinners, and teas, and on these occasions it was amusing
to watch Mrs. Fry's sedulous efforts to keep Mrs.
Mott at a distance. If Mrs. Mott was on the lawn,
Mrs. Fry would go into the house; if Mrs. Mott was in
the house, Mrs. Fry would stay out on the lawn. One
evening, when we were all crowded into two parlors,
and there was no escape, the word went round that
Mrs. Fry felt moved to pray with the American delegates,
whereupon a profound silence reigned. After a
few moments Mrs. Fry's voice was heard deploring the
schism among the American Friends; that sol many had
been led astray by false doctrines; urging the Spirit of
All Good to show them the error of their way, and
gather them once more into the fold of the great Shepherd
of our faith. The prayer was directed so pointedly
at the followers of Elias Hicks, and at Lucretia
Mott in particular, that I whispered to Lucretia, at the
close, that she should now pray for Mrs. Fry, that her
eyes might be opened to her bigotry and uncharitableness,
and be led by the Spirit into higher light. "Oh,
no!" she replied, "a prayer of this character, under the
circumstances, is an unfair advantage to take of a
stranger, but I would not resent it in the house of her
friends."</p>
<p>In these gatherings we met the leading Quaker families
and many other philanthropists of different denominations
interested in the anti-slavery movement.
On all these occasions our noble Garrison spoke
most effectively, and thus our English friends had an
<SPAN name="Page_85"></SPAN>opportunity of enjoying his eloquence, the lack
of which
had been so grave a loss in the convention.</p>
<p>We devoted a month sedulously to sightseeing in
London, and, in the line of the traveler's duty, we explored
St. Paul's Cathedral, the British Museum, the
Tower, various prisons, hospitals, galleries of art, Windsor
Castle, and St. James's Palace, the Zoological Gardens,
the schools and colleges, the chief theaters and
churches, Westminster Abbey, the Houses of Parliament,
and the Courts. We heard the most famous
preachers, actors, and statesmen. In fact, we went to
the top and bottom of everything, from the dome of St.
Paul to the tunnel under the Thames, just then in the
process of excavation. We drove through the parks,
sailed up and down the Thames, and then visited every
shire but four in England, in all of which we had large
meetings, Mr. Birney and Mr. Stanton being the chief
speakers. As we were generally invited to stay with
Friends, it gave us a good opportunity to see the leading
families, such as the Ashursts, the Alexanders, the
Priestmans, the Braithwaites, and Buxtons, the Gurneys,
the Peases, the Wighams of Edinburgh, and the
Webbs of Dublin. We spent a few days with John
Joseph Gurney at his beautiful home in Norwich. He
had just returned from America, having made a tour
through the South. When asked how he liked
America, he said, "I like everything but your pie crust
and your slavery."</p>
<p>Before leaving London, the whole American delegation,
about forty in number, were invited to dine with
Samuel Gurney. He and his brother, John Joseph
Gurney, were, at that time, the leading bankers in London.
Someone facetiously remarked that the Jews
<SPAN name="Page_86"></SPAN>were the leading bankers in London until the
Quakers
crowded them out.</p>
<p>One of the most striking women I met in England
at this time was Miss Elizabeth Pease. I never saw
a more strongly marked face. Meeting her, forty years
after, on the platform of a great meeting in the Town
Hall at Glasgow, I knew her at once. She is now Mrs.
Nichol of Edinburgh, and, though on the shady side
of eighty, is still active in all the reforms of the day.</p>
<p>It surprised us very much at first, when driving into
the grounds of some of these beautiful Quaker homes,
to have the great bell rung at the lodge, and to see the
number of liveried servants on the porch and in the halls,
and then to meet the host in plain garb, and to be welcomed
in plain language, "How does thee do, Henry?"
"How does thee do Elizabeth?" This sounded peculiarly
sweet to me—a stranger in a strange land. The
wealthy English Quakers we visited at that time, taking
them all in all, were the most charming people I had
ever seen. They were refined and intelligent on all
subjects, and though rather conservative on some
points, were not aggressive in pressing their opinions
on others. Their hospitality was charming and generous,
their homes the beau ideal of comfort and order,
the cuisine faultless, while peace reigned over all. The
quiet, gentle manner and the soft tones in speaking, and
the mysterious quiet in these well-ordered homes were
like the atmosphere one finds in a modern convent,
where the ordinary duties of the day seem to be accomplished
by some magical influence.</p>
<p>Before leaving London we spent a delightful day
in June at the home of Samuel Gurney, surrounded by
a fine park with six hundred deer roaming about—<SPAN name="Page_87"></SPAN>always
a beautiful feature in the English landscape. As
the Duchess of Sutherland and Lord Morpeth had expressed
a wish to Mrs. Fry to meet some of the leading
American abolitionists, it was arranged that they should
call at her brother's residence on this occasion. Soon
after we arrived, the Duchess, with her brother and
Mrs. Fry, in her state carriage with six horses and outriders,
drove up to the door. Mr. Gurney was evidently
embarrassed at the prospect of a lord and a duchess
under his roof. Leaning on the arm of Mrs. Fry, the
duchess was formally introduced to us individually.
Mrs. Mott conversed with the distinguished guests
with the same fluency and composure as with her own
countrywomen. However anxious the English people
were as to what they should say and do, the Americans
were all quite at their ease.</p>
<p>As Lord Morpeth had some interesting letters from
the island of Jamaica to read to us, we formed a circle
on the lawn to listen. England had just paid one hundred
millions of dollars to emancipate the slaves, and we
were all interested in hearing the result of the experiment.
The distinguished guest in turn had many
questions to ask in regard to American slavery. We
found none of that prejudice against color in England
which is so inveterate among the American people;
at my first dinner in England I found myself beside a
gentleman from Jamaica, as black as the ace of spades.
After the departure of the duchess, dinner was announced.
It was a sumptuous meal, most tastefully
served. There were half a dozen wineglasses at every
plate, but abolitionists, in those days, were all converts
to temperance, and, as the bottles went around there
was a general headshaking, and the right hand ex<SPAN name="Page_88"></SPAN>tended
over the glasses. Our English friends were
amazed that none of us drank wine. Mr. Gurney said
he had never before seen such a sight as forty ladies and
gentlemen sitting down to dinner and none of them
tasting wine. In talking with him on that point, he
said:</p>
<p>"I suppose your nursing mothers drink beer?"</p>
<p>I laughed, and said, "Oh, no! We should be afraid
of befogging the brains of our children."</p>
<p>"No danger of that," said he; "we are all bright
enough, and yet a cask of beer is rolled into the cellar
for the mother with each newborn child."</p>
<p>Colonel Miller from Vermont, one of our American
delegation, was in the Greek war with Lord Byron. As
Lady Byron had expressed a wish to see him, that her
daughter might know something of her father's last
days, an interview was arranged, and the colonel kindly
invited me to accompany him. His account of their
acquaintance and the many noble traits of character
Lord Byron manifested, his generous impulses and acts
of self-sacrifice, seemed particularly gratifying to the
daughter. It was a sad interview, arranged chiefly for
the daughter's satisfaction, though Lady Byron listened
with a painful interest. As the colonel was a warm
admirer of the great poet, he no doubt represented him
in the best possible light, and his narration of his last
days was deeply interesting. Lady Byron had a quiet,
reserved manner, a sad face, and a low, plaintive voice,
like one who had known deep sorrow. I had seen her
frequently in the convention and at social teas, and had
been personally presented to her before this occasion.
Altogether I thought her a sweet, attractive-looking
woman.</p>
<p><SPAN name="Page_89"></SPAN>We had a pleasant interview with Lord Brougham
also. The Philadelphia Anti-slavery Society sent him
an elaborately carved inkstand, made from the wood of
Pennsylvania Hall, which was destroyed by a pro-slavery
mob. Mr. Birney made a most graceful speech in
presenting the memento, and Lord Brougham was
equally happy in receiving it.</p>
<p>One of the most notable characters we met at this
time was Daniel O'Connell. He made his first appearance
in the London convention a few days after the
women were rejected. He paid a beautiful tribute to
woman and said that, if he had been present when the
question was under discussion, he should have spoken
and voted for their admission. He was a tall, well-developed,
magnificent-looking man, and probably one of
the most effective speakers Ireland ever produced. I
saw him at a great India meeting in Exeter Hall, where
some of the best orators from France, America, and England
were present. There were six natives from India
on the platform who, not understanding anything that
was said, naturally remained listless throughout the
proceedings. But the moment O'Connell began to
speak they were all attention, bending forward and
closely watching every movement. One could almost
tell what he said from the play of his expressive features,
his wonderful gestures, and the pose of his whole body.
When he finished, the natives joined in the general applause.
He had all Wendell Phillips' power of sarcasm
and denunciation, and added to that the most tender
pathos. He could make his audience laugh or cry at
pleasure. It was a rare sight to see him dressed in
"Repeal cloth" in one of his Repeal meetings. We
were in Dublin in the midst of that excitement, when
<SPAN name="Page_90"></SPAN>the hopes of new liberties for that oppressed
people all
centered on O'Connell. The enthusiasm of the people
for the Repeal of the Union was then at white-heat.
Dining one day with the "Great Liberator," as he
was called, I asked him if he hoped to carry that
measure.</p>
<p>"No," he said, "but it is always good policy to claim
the uttermost and then you will be sure to get something."</p>
<p>Could he have looked forward fifty years and have
seen the present condition of his unhappy country, he
would have known that English greed and selfishness
could defeat any policy, however wise and far-seeing.
The successive steps by which Irish commerce was
ruined and religious feuds between her people continually
fanned into life, and the nation subjugated, form the
darkest page in the history of England. But the people
are awakening at last to their duty, and, for the first
time, organizing English public sentiment in favor of
"Home Rule." I attended several large, enthusiastic
meetings when last in England, in which the most radical
utterances of Irish patriots were received with prolonged
cheers. I trust the day is not far off when the
beautiful Emerald Isle will unfurl her banner before
the nations of the earth, enthroned as the Queen
Republic of those northern seas!</p>
<p>We visited Wordsworth's home at Grasmere, among
the beautiful lakes, but he was not there. However,
we saw his surroundings—the landscape that inspired
some of his poetic dreams, and the dense rows of hollyhocks
of every shade and color, leading from his porch
to the gate. The gardener told us this was his favorite
flower. Though it had no special beauty in itself, taken
<SPAN name="Page_91"></SPAN>alone, yet the wonderful combination of royal
colors
was indeed striking and beautiful. We saw Harriet
Martineau at her country home as well as at her house
in town. As we were obliged to converse with her
through an ear trumpet, we left her to do most of the
talking. She gave us many amusing experiences of her
travels in America, and her comments on the London
Convention were rich and racy. She was not an attractive
woman in either manner or appearance, though
considered great and good by all who knew her.</p>
<p>We spent a few days with Thomas Clarkson, in Ipswich.
He lived in a very old house with long rambling
corridors, surrounded by a moat, which we crossed' by
means of a drawbridge. He had just written an article
against the colonization scheme, which his wife read
aloud to us. He was so absorbed in the subject that he
forgot the article was written by himself, and kept up
a running applause with "hear!" "hear!" the English
mode of expressing approbation. He told us of the
severe struggles he and Wilberforce had gone through
in rousing the public sentiment of England to the demand
for emancipation in Jamaica. But their trials
were mild, compared with what Garrison and his coadjutors
had suffered in America.</p>
<p>Having read of all these people, it was difficult to realize,
as I visited them in their own homes from day to
day, that they were the same persons I had so long worshiped
from afar!</p>
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