Manners for Men

<h2><SPAN name="IN_A_CARRIAGE" id="IN_A_CARRIAGE"></SPAN><i>IN A CARRIAGE.</i></h2> <div class="sidenote">Handing ladies to their carriage.</div> <p class="nind"><span class="smcap">In</span> handing ladies to their carriage a man offers his right arm to the senior of the party and walks with her to the door, opening it with his left hand. The others will probably follow without escort, but if not, he must offer it to each in turn, holding an umbrella over them should it be raining. He closes the door and conveys their orders to the footman or coachman.</p> <div class="sidenote">The man takes the back seat.</div> <p>Should he be invited to enter the carriage with them, he always takes the back seat&mdash;that is, with his back to the horses&mdash;unless specially invited to the front one. He must not either raise or lower the windows unless requested to do so.</p> <div class="sidenote">On smoking in a carriage.</div> <p>Should he be smoking, he throws away his cigar or cigarette at once. If he should be a very intimate acquaintance of the lady, he may ask her permission to smoke, but never otherwise, since it is disagreeable for a woman to refuse such permission, and consequently she often gives it when she really dislikes the smell of tobacco,<span class="pagenum"><SPAN name="page_030" id="page_030"></SPAN>{30}</span> especially in the limited space of a carriage, should it be a closed one.</p> <div class="sidenote">Pronunciation of “brougham.”</div> <p>It may be as well to mention here that the proper pronunciation of the word “brougham” is as though it were spelled “broom,” quite short and monosyllabic. This is a trifle, of course, but, like many another equally small matter, it is indicative of those accustomed to good society.<span class="pagenum"><SPAN name="page_031" id="page_031"></SPAN>{31}</span></p> <div style="break-after:column;"></div><br />