<h3>CHAPTER VI.</h3>
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<p>HINTS ON DRESS FOR ELDERLY WOMEN.</p>
<p>Dress has much to do with a youthful or aged appearance. Shawls
and long mantles that fall from the shoulders give even youthful
figures a look of age, because the lines are long and dignified and
without especial grace. Beautiful wraps, or coats that do not come
very far below the hip-line, can be worn becomingly by elderly
ladies, neither emphasizing their years nor making them appear too
frivolously attired. There is a smack of truth in the maxim, <i>As
a woman grows old the dress material should increase in richness
and decrease in brightness</i>. Handsome brocades, soft, elegant
silks, woollen textures, and velvets are eminently suitable and
becoming to women who are growing old.</p>
<p>Black, and black-and-white, soft white chiffon veiled in lace,
cashmeres, and such refined tissues should be selected by those in
"the first wrinkles of youth." Grays combined with filmy white
material, dull bronzes lightened with cream-tinted lace, are also
charmingly appropriate. Pale blue veiled in chiffon is another
grateful combination.</p>
<p>White should be worn more than it is by old ladies. It is so
suggestive of all that is clean, bright, and dainty; and if there
is anything an old lady should strive to be in her personal
appearance it is dainty. Exquisite cleanliness is one of the most
necessary attributes of attractive old age, and any texture that in
its quality and color emphasizes the idea of cleanliness should
commend itself to those in their "advanced youth."</p>
<p>Little old thin women, large ones too, for that matter, who are
wrinkled and colorless, should not wear diamonds. The dazzling
white gems with pitiless brilliancy bring out the pasty look of the
skin. The soft glow of pearls, the cloudlike effects of the opal,
the unobtrusive lights of the moonstone harmonize with the tints of
hair and skin of the aged.</p>
<p>Elderly women should not wear bright flowers on their bonnets or
hats. Fresh-looking roses above a face that has lost its first
youthfulness only make that fact more obvious. Forget-me-nots,
mignonettes, certain pretty white flowers, the palest of pink
roses, or the most delicate tint of yellow veiled with lace are not
inappropriate for those who do not enjoy wearing sombre bonnets and
hats which are composed only of rich, black textures. Lace cleverly
intermingled with velvet and jewelled ornaments of dull, rich
shades are exceedingly effective on the head-gear of the old.</p>
<p>Those who are gray-haired—and indeed all women as they
grow old—should wear red above their brows instead of under
their chins. A glint of rich cardinal velvet, or a rosette of the
same against gray hair is beautiful.</p>
<p>Lace! Lace! Lace! and still more Lace for the old. <i>Lace is an
essential to the dress of a woman more than forty years of age</i>.
Jabots, ruches, yokes, cascades, vests, and gowns of lace, black or
white, are all for the old. Rich lace has an exquisitely softening
effect on the complexion. Thin women with necks that look like the
strings of a violin should swathe, smother, decorate, and adorn
their throats with lace or gossamer fabrics that have the same
quality as lace. These airy textures, in which light and shadow can
so beautifully shift, subdue roughnesses of the skin and harshness
in lines. Old Dame Nature is the prime teacher of these bewitching
artifices. Note her fine effects with mists and cobwebs, with
lace-like moss on sturdy old oaks, the bloom on the peach and the
grape. Nature produces her most enchanting colorings with dust and
age. Laces, gauzes, mulls, chiffons, net, and gossamer throw the
same beautiful glamour over the face and they are fit and charming
accompaniments of gray hair, which is a wonderful softener of
defective complexions and hard facial lines.</p>
<p>Too much cannot be written upon the proper arrangement in the
neck-gear of the aged. The disfiguring wrinkles that make many
necks unsightly may be kept in obeyance by massaging. No matter
what the fashion in neck-gear, the aged must modify it to suit
their needs. An old lady with a thin, pipe-stem neck should adopt a
full ruche and fluffy, soft collar-bands. I cannot forbear
repeating that tulle as light as thistle bubbles, either white or
gray or black, is exquisitely effective for thin, scrawny necks.
The fleshy, red neck should be softened with powder and discreetly
veiled in chemisettes of chiffon and delicate net.</p>
<p>Old ladies may keep in the style, thus being in the picture of
the hour; but it is one of the divine privileges of age that it can
make its own modes. Absolute cleanliness, cleanliness as exacting
as that proper nurses prescribe for babies, is the first and most
important factor in making old age attractive. Rich dress, in
artistic colors, soft, misty, esthetic, comes next; then the
idealizing scarfs, collars, jabots, and fichus of lace and tulles.
Old people becomingly and artistically attired have the charm of
rare old pictures. If they have soul-illumined faces they are
precious masterpieces.</p>
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