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<h2> SYMPOSIUM </h2>
<p>PERSONS OF THE DIALOGUE: Apollodorus, who repeats to his companion the
dialogue which he had heard from Aristodemus, and had already once
narrated to Glaucon. Phaedrus, Pausanias, Eryximachus, Aristophanes,
Agathon, Socrates, Alcibiades, A Troop of Revellers.</p>
<p>SCENE: The House of Agathon.</p>
<p>Concerning the things about which you ask to be informed I believe that I
am not ill-prepared with an answer. For the day before yesterday I was
coming from my own home at Phalerum to the city, and one of my
acquaintance, who had caught a sight of me from behind, calling out
playfully in the distance, said: Apollodorus, O thou Phalerian (Probably a
play of words on (Greek), 'bald-headed.') man, halt! So I did as I was
bid; and then he said, I was looking for you, Apollodorus, only just now,
that I might ask you about the speeches in praise of love, which were
delivered by Socrates, Alcibiades, and others, at Agathon's supper.
Phoenix, the son of Philip, told another person who told me of them; his
narrative was very indistinct, but he said that you knew, and I wish that
you would give me an account of them. Who, if not you, should be the
reporter of the words of your friend? And first tell me, he said, were you
present at this meeting?</p>
<p>Your informant, Glaucon, I said, must have been very indistinct indeed, if
you imagine that the occasion was recent; or that I could have been of the
party.</p>
<p>Why, yes, he replied, I thought so.</p>
<p>Impossible: I said. Are you ignorant that for many years Agathon has not
resided at Athens; and not three have elapsed since I became acquainted
with Socrates, and have made it my daily business to know all that he says
and does. There was a time when I was running about the world, fancying
myself to be well employed, but I was really a most wretched being, no
better than you are now. I thought that I ought to do anything rather than
be a philosopher.</p>
<p>Well, he said, jesting apart, tell me when the meeting occurred.</p>
<p>In our boyhood, I replied, when Agathon won the prize with his first
tragedy, on the day after that on which he and his chorus offered the
sacrifice of victory.</p>
<p>Then it must have been a long while ago, he said; and who told you—did
Socrates?</p>
<p>No indeed, I replied, but the same person who told Phoenix;—he was a
little fellow, who never wore any shoes, Aristodemus, of the deme of
Cydathenaeum. He had been at Agathon's feast; and I think that in those
days there was no one who was a more devoted admirer of Socrates.
Moreover, I have asked Socrates about the truth of some parts of his
narrative, and he confirmed them. Then, said Glaucon, let us have the tale
over again; is not the road to Athens just made for conversation? And so
we walked, and talked of the discourses on love; and therefore, as I said
at first, I am not ill-prepared to comply with your request, and will have
another rehearsal of them if you like. For to speak or to hear others
speak of philosophy always gives me the greatest pleasure, to say nothing
of the profit. But when I hear another strain, especially that of you rich
men and traders, such conversation displeases me; and I pity you who are
my companions, because you think that you are doing something when in
reality you are doing nothing. And I dare say that you pity me in return,
whom you regard as an unhappy creature, and very probably you are right.
But I certainly know of you what you only think of me—there is the
difference.</p>
<p>COMPANION: I see, Apollodorus, that you are just the same—always
speaking evil of yourself, and of others; and I do believe that you pity
all mankind, with the exception of Socrates, yourself first of all, true
in this to your old name, which, however deserved, I know not how you
acquired, of Apollodorus the madman; for you are always raging against
yourself and everybody but Socrates.</p>
<p>APOLLODORUS: Yes, friend, and the reason why I am said to be mad, and out
of my wits, is just because I have these notions of myself and you; no
other evidence is required.</p>
<p>COMPANION: No more of that, Apollodorus; but let me renew my request that
you would repeat the conversation.</p>
<p>APOLLODORUS: Well, the tale of love was on this wise:—But perhaps I
had better begin at the beginning, and endeavour to give you the exact
words of Aristodemus:</p>
<p>He said that he met Socrates fresh from the bath and sandalled; and as the
sight of the sandals was unusual, he asked him whither he was going that
he had been converted into such a beau:—</p>
<p>To a banquet at Agathon's, he replied, whose invitation to his sacrifice
of victory I refused yesterday, fearing a crowd, but promising that I
would come to-day instead; and so I have put on my finery, because he is
such a fine man. What say you to going with me unasked?</p>
<p>I will do as you bid me, I replied.</p>
<p>Follow then, he said, and let us demolish the proverb:—</p>
<p>'To the feasts of inferior men the good unbidden go;'</p>
<p>instead of which our proverb will run:—</p>
<p>'To the feasts of the good the good unbidden go;'</p>
<p>and this alteration may be supported by the authority of Homer himself,
who not only demolishes but literally outrages the proverb. For, after
picturing Agamemnon as the most valiant of men, he makes Menelaus, who is
but a fainthearted warrior, come unbidden (Iliad) to the banquet of
Agamemnon, who is feasting and offering sacrifices, not the better to the
worse, but the worse to the better.</p>
<p>I rather fear, Socrates, said Aristodemus, lest this may still be my case;
and that, like Menelaus in Homer, I shall be the inferior person, who</p>
<p>'To the feasts of the wise unbidden goes.'</p>
<p>But I shall say that I was bidden of you, and then you will have to make
an excuse.</p>
<p>'Two going together,'</p>
<p>he replied, in Homeric fashion, one or other of them may invent an excuse
by the way (Iliad).</p>
<p>This was the style of their conversation as they went along. Socrates
dropped behind in a fit of abstraction, and desired Aristodemus, who was
waiting, to go on before him. When he reached the house of Agathon he
found the doors wide open, and a comical thing happened. A servant coming
out met him, and led him at once into the banqueting-hall in which the
guests were reclining, for the banquet was about to begin. Welcome,
Aristodemus, said Agathon, as soon as he appeared—you are just in
time to sup with us; if you come on any other matter put it off, and make
one of us, as I was looking for you yesterday and meant to have asked you,
if I could have found you. But what have you done with Socrates?</p>
<p>I turned round, but Socrates was nowhere to be seen; and I had to explain
that he had been with me a moment before, and that I came by his
invitation to the supper.</p>
<p>You were quite right in coming, said Agathon; but where is he himself?</p>
<p>He was behind me just now, as I entered, he said, and I cannot think what
has become of him.</p>
<p>Go and look for him, boy, said Agathon, and bring him in; and do you,
Aristodemus, meanwhile take the place by Eryximachus.</p>
<p>The servant then assisted him to wash, and he lay down, and presently
another servant came in and reported that our friend Socrates had retired
into the portico of the neighbouring house. 'There he is fixed,' said he,
'and when I call to him he will not stir.'</p>
<p>How strange, said Agathon; then you must call him again, and keep calling
him.</p>
<p>Let him alone, said my informant; he has a way of stopping anywhere and
losing himself without any reason. I believe that he will soon appear; do
not therefore disturb him.</p>
<p>Well, if you think so, I will leave him, said Agathon. And then, turning
to the servants, he added, 'Let us have supper without waiting for him.
Serve up whatever you please, for there is no one to give you orders;
hitherto I have never left you to yourselves. But on this occasion imagine
that you are our hosts, and that I and the company are your guests; treat
us well, and then we shall commend you.' After this, supper was served,
but still no Socrates; and during the meal Agathon several times expressed
a wish to send for him, but Aristodemus objected; and at last when the
feast was about half over—for the fit, as usual, was not of long
duration—Socrates entered. Agathon, who was reclining alone at the
end of the table, begged that he would take the place next to him; that 'I
may touch you,' he said, 'and have the benefit of that wise thought which
came into your mind in the portico, and is now in your possession; for I
am certain that you would not have come away until you had found what you
sought.'</p>
<p>How I wish, said Socrates, taking his place as he was desired, that wisdom
could be infused by touch, out of the fuller into the emptier man, as
water runs through wool out of a fuller cup into an emptier one; if that
were so, how greatly should I value the privilege of reclining at your
side! For you would have filled me full with a stream of wisdom plenteous
and fair; whereas my own is of a very mean and questionable sort, no
better than a dream. But yours is bright and full of promise, and was
manifested forth in all the splendour of youth the day before yesterday,
in the presence of more than thirty thousand Hellenes.</p>
<p>You are mocking, Socrates, said Agathon, and ere long you and I will have
to determine who bears off the palm of wisdom—of this Dionysus shall
be the judge; but at present you are better occupied with supper.</p>
<p>Socrates took his place on the couch, and supped with the rest; and then
libations were offered, and after a hymn had been sung to the god, and
there had been the usual ceremonies, they were about to commence drinking,
when Pausanias said, And now, my friends, how can we drink with least
injury to ourselves? I can assure you that I feel severely the effect of
yesterday's potations, and must have time to recover; and I suspect that
most of you are in the same predicament, for you were of the party
yesterday. Consider then: How can the drinking be made easiest?</p>
<p>I entirely agree, said Aristophanes, that we should, by all means, avoid
hard drinking, for I was myself one of those who were yesterday drowned in
drink.</p>
<p>I think that you are right, said Eryximachus, the son of Acumenus; but I
should still like to hear one other person speak: Is Agathon able to drink
hard?</p>
<p>I am not equal to it, said Agathon.</p>
<p>Then, said Eryximachus, the weak heads like myself, Aristodemus, Phaedrus,
and others who never can drink, are fortunate in finding that the stronger
ones are not in a drinking mood. (I do not include Socrates, who is able
either to drink or to abstain, and will not mind, whichever we do.) Well,
as of none of the company seem disposed to drink much, I may be forgiven
for saying, as a physician, that drinking deep is a bad practice, which I
never follow, if I can help, and certainly do not recommend to another,
least of all to any one who still feels the effects of yesterday's
carouse.</p>
<p>I always do what you advise, and especially what you prescribe as a
physician, rejoined Phaedrus the Myrrhinusian, and the rest of the
company, if they are wise, will do the same.</p>
<p>It was agreed that drinking was not to be the order of the day, but that
they were all to drink only so much as they pleased.</p>
<p>Then, said Eryximachus, as you are all agreed that drinking is to be
voluntary, and that there is to be no compulsion, I move, in the next
place, that the flute-girl, who has just made her appearance, be told to
go away and play to herself, or, if she likes, to the women who are within
(compare Prot.). To-day let us have conversation instead; and, if you will
allow me, I will tell you what sort of conversation. This proposal having
been accepted, Eryximachus proceeded as follows:—</p>
<p>I will begin, he said, after the manner of Melanippe in Euripides,</p>
<p>'Not mine the word'</p>
<p>which I am about to speak, but that of Phaedrus. For often he says to me
in an indignant tone:—'What a strange thing it is, Eryximachus,
that, whereas other gods have poems and hymns made in their honour, the
great and glorious god, Love, has no encomiast among all the poets who are
so many. There are the worthy sophists too—the excellent Prodicus
for example, who have descanted in prose on the virtues of Heracles and
other heroes; and, what is still more extraordinary, I have met with a
philosophical work in which the utility of salt has been made the theme of
an eloquent discourse; and many other like things have had a like honour
bestowed upon them. And only to think that there should have been an eager
interest created about them, and yet that to this day no one has ever
dared worthily to hymn Love's praises! So entirely has this great deity
been neglected.' Now in this Phaedrus seems to me to be quite right, and
therefore I want to offer him a contribution; also I think that at the
present moment we who are here assembled cannot do better than honour the
god Love. If you agree with me, there will be no lack of conversation; for
I mean to propose that each of us in turn, going from left to right, shall
make a speech in honour of Love. Let him give us the best which he can;
and Phaedrus, because he is sitting first on the left hand, and because he
is the father of the thought, shall begin.</p>
<p>No one will vote against you, Eryximachus, said Socrates. How can I oppose
your motion, who profess to understand nothing but matters of love; nor, I
presume, will Agathon and Pausanias; and there can be no doubt of
Aristophanes, whose whole concern is with Dionysus and Aphrodite; nor will
any one disagree of those whom I see around me. The proposal, as I am
aware, may seem rather hard upon us whose place is last; but we shall be
contented if we hear some good speeches first. Let Phaedrus begin the
praise of Love, and good luck to him. All the company expressed their
assent, and desired him to do as Socrates bade him.</p>
<p>Aristodemus did not recollect all that was said, nor do I recollect all
that he related to me; but I will tell you what I thought most worthy of
remembrance, and what the chief speakers said.</p>
<p>Phaedrus began by affirming that Love is a mighty god, and wonderful among
gods and men, but especially wonderful in his birth. For he is the eldest
of the gods, which is an honour to him; and a proof of his claim to this
honour is, that of his parents there is no memorial; neither poet nor
prose-writer has ever affirmed that he had any. As Hesiod says:—</p>
<p>'First Chaos came, and then broad-bosomed Earth, The everlasting seat of
all that is, And Love.'</p>
<p>In other words, after Chaos, the Earth and Love, these two, came into
being. Also Parmenides sings of Generation:</p>
<p>'First in the train of gods, he fashioned Love.'</p>
<p>And Acusilaus agrees with Hesiod. Thus numerous are the witnesses who
acknowledge Love to be the eldest of the gods. And not only is he the
eldest, he is also the source of the greatest benefits to us. For I know
not any greater blessing to a young man who is beginning life than a
virtuous lover, or to the lover than a beloved youth. For the principle
which ought to be the guide of men who would nobly live—that
principle, I say, neither kindred, nor honour, nor wealth, nor any other
motive is able to implant so well as love. Of what am I speaking? Of the
sense of honour and dishonour, without which neither states nor
individuals ever do any good or great work. And I say that a lover who is
detected in doing any dishonourable act, or submitting through cowardice
when any dishonour is done to him by another, will be more pained at being
detected by his beloved than at being seen by his father, or by his
companions, or by any one else. The beloved too, when he is found in any
disgraceful situation, has the same feeling about his lover. And if there
were only some way of contriving that a state or an army should be made up
of lovers and their loves (compare Rep.), they would be the very best
governors of their own city, abstaining from all dishonour, and emulating
one another in honour; and when fighting at each other's side, although a
mere handful, they would overcome the world. For what lover would not
choose rather to be seen by all mankind than by his beloved, either when
abandoning his post or throwing away his arms? He would be ready to die a
thousand deaths rather than endure this. Or who would desert his beloved
or fail him in the hour of danger? The veriest coward would become an
inspired hero, equal to the bravest, at such a time; Love would inspire
him. That courage which, as Homer says, the god breathes into the souls of
some heroes, Love of his own nature infuses into the lover.</p>
<p>Love will make men dare to die for their beloved—love alone; and
women as well as men. Of this, Alcestis, the daughter of Pelias, is a
monument to all Hellas; for she was willing to lay down her life on behalf
of her husband, when no one else would, although he had a father and
mother; but the tenderness of her love so far exceeded theirs, that she
made them seem to be strangers in blood to their own son, and in name only
related to him; and so noble did this action of hers appear to the gods,
as well as to men, that among the many who have done virtuously she is one
of the very few to whom, in admiration of her noble action, they have
granted the privilege of returning alive to earth; such exceeding honour
is paid by the gods to the devotion and virtue of love. But Orpheus, the
son of Oeagrus, the harper, they sent empty away, and presented to him an
apparition only of her whom he sought, but herself they would not give up,
because he showed no spirit; he was only a harp-player, and did not dare
like Alcestis to die for love, but was contriving how he might enter Hades
alive; moreover, they afterwards caused him to suffer death at the hands
of women, as the punishment of his cowardliness. Very different was the
reward of the true love of Achilles towards his lover Patroclus—his
lover and not his love (the notion that Patroclus was the beloved one is a
foolish error into which Aeschylus has fallen, for Achilles was surely the
fairer of the two, fairer also than all the other heroes; and, as Homer
informs us, he was still beardless, and younger far). And greatly as the
gods honour the virtue of love, still the return of love on the part of
the beloved to the lover is more admired and valued and rewarded by them,
for the lover is more divine; because he is inspired by God. Now Achilles
was quite aware, for he had been told by his mother, that he might avoid
death and return home, and live to a good old age, if he abstained from
slaying Hector. Nevertheless he gave his life to revenge his friend, and
dared to die, not only in his defence, but after he was dead. Wherefore
the gods honoured him even above Alcestis, and sent him to the Islands of
the Blest. These are my reasons for affirming that Love is the eldest and
noblest and mightiest of the gods; and the chiefest author and giver of
virtue in life, and of happiness after death.</p>
<p>This, or something like this, was the speech of Phaedrus; and some other
speeches followed which Aristodemus did not remember; the next which he
repeated was that of Pausanias. Phaedrus, he said, the argument has not
been set before us, I think, quite in the right form;—we should not
be called upon to praise Love in such an indiscriminate manner. If there
were only one Love, then what you said would be well enough; but since
there are more Loves than one,—should have begun by determining
which of them was to be the theme of our praises. I will amend this
defect; and first of all I will tell you which Love is deserving of
praise, and then try to hymn the praiseworthy one in a manner worthy of
him. For we all know that Love is inseparable from Aphrodite, and if there
were only one Aphrodite there would be only one Love; but as there are two
goddesses there must be two Loves. And am I not right in asserting that
there are two goddesses? The elder one, having no mother, who is called
the heavenly Aphrodite—she is the daughter of Uranus; the younger,
who is the daughter of Zeus and Dione—her we call common; and the
Love who is her fellow-worker is rightly named common, as the other love
is called heavenly. All the gods ought to have praise given to them, but
not without distinction of their natures; and therefore I must try to
distinguish the characters of the two Loves. Now actions vary according to
the manner of their performance. Take, for example, that which we are now
doing, drinking, singing and talking—these actions are not in
themselves either good or evil, but they turn out in this or that way
according to the mode of performing them; and when well done they are
good, and when wrongly done they are evil; and in like manner not every
love, but only that which has a noble purpose, is noble and worthy of
praise. The Love who is the offspring of the common Aphrodite is
essentially common, and has no discrimination, being such as the meaner
sort of men feel, and is apt to be of women as well as of youths, and is
of the body rather than of the soul—the most foolish beings are the
objects of this love which desires only to gain an end, but never thinks
of accomplishing the end nobly, and therefore does good and evil quite
indiscriminately. The goddess who is his mother is far younger than the
other, and she was born of the union of the male and female, and partakes
of both. But the offspring of the heavenly Aphrodite is derived from a
mother in whose birth the female has no part,—she is from the male
only; this is that love which is of youths, and the goddess being older,
there is nothing of wantonness in her. Those who are inspired by this love
turn to the male, and delight in him who is the more valiant and
intelligent nature; any one may recognise the pure enthusiasts in the very
character of their attachments. For they love not boys, but intelligent
beings whose reason is beginning to be developed, much about the time at
which their beards begin to grow. And in choosing young men to be their
companions, they mean to be faithful to them, and pass their whole life in
company with them, not to take them in their inexperience, and deceive
them, and play the fool with them, or run away from one to another of
them. But the love of young boys should be forbidden by law, because their
future is uncertain; they may turn out good or bad, either in body or
soul, and much noble enthusiasm may be thrown away upon them; in this
matter the good are a law to themselves, and the coarser sort of lovers
ought to be restrained by force; as we restrain or attempt to restrain
them from fixing their affections on women of free birth. These are the
persons who bring a reproach on love; and some have been led to deny the
lawfulness of such attachments because they see the impropriety and evil
of them; for surely nothing that is decorously and lawfully done can
justly be censured. Now here and in Lacedaemon the rules about love are
perplexing, but in most cities they are simple and easily intelligible; in
Elis and Boeotia, and in countries having no gifts of eloquence, they are
very straightforward; the law is simply in favour of these connexions, and
no one, whether young or old, has anything to say to their discredit; the
reason being, as I suppose, that they are men of few words in those parts,
and therefore the lovers do not like the trouble of pleading their suit.
In Ionia and other places, and generally in countries which are subject to
the barbarians, the custom is held to be dishonourable; loves of youths
share the evil repute in which philosophy and gymnastics are held, because
they are inimical to tyranny; for the interests of rulers require that
their subjects should be poor in spirit (compare Arist. Politics), and
that there should be no strong bond of friendship or society among them,
which love, above all other motives, is likely to inspire, as our Athenian
tyrants learned by experience; for the love of Aristogeiton and the
constancy of Harmodius had a strength which undid their power. And,
therefore, the ill-repute into which these attachments have fallen is to
be ascribed to the evil condition of those who make them to be
ill-reputed; that is to say, to the self-seeking of the governors and the
cowardice of the governed; on the other hand, the indiscriminate honour
which is given to them in some countries is attributable to the laziness
of those who hold this opinion of them. In our own country a far better
principle prevails, but, as I was saying, the explanation of it is rather
perplexing. For, observe that open loves are held to be more honourable
than secret ones, and that the love of the noblest and highest, even if
their persons are less beautiful than others, is especially honourable.
Consider, too, how great is the encouragement which all the world gives to
the lover; neither is he supposed to be doing anything dishonourable; but
if he succeeds he is praised, and if he fail he is blamed. And in the
pursuit of his love the custom of mankind allows him to do many strange
things, which philosophy would bitterly censure if they were done from any
motive of interest, or wish for office or power. He may pray, and entreat,
and supplicate, and swear, and lie on a mat at the door, and endure a
slavery worse than that of any slave—in any other case friends and
enemies would be equally ready to prevent him, but now there is no friend
who will be ashamed of him and admonish him, and no enemy will charge him
with meanness or flattery; the actions of a lover have a grace which
ennobles them; and custom has decided that they are highly commendable and
that there no loss of character in them; and, what is strangest of all, he
only may swear and forswear himself (so men say), and the gods will
forgive his transgression, for there is no such thing as a lover's oath.
Such is the entire liberty which gods and men have allowed the lover,
according to the custom which prevails in our part of the world. From this
point of view a man fairly argues that in Athens to love and to be loved
is held to be a very honourable thing. But when parents forbid their sons
to talk with their lovers, and place them under a tutor's care, who is
appointed to see to these things, and their companions and equals cast in
their teeth anything of the sort which they may observe, and their elders
refuse to silence the reprovers and do not rebuke them—any one who
reflects on all this will, on the contrary, think that we hold these
practices to be most disgraceful. But, as I was saying at first, the truth
as I imagine is, that whether such practices are honourable or whether
they are dishonourable is not a simple question; they are honourable to
him who follows them honourably, dishonourable to him who follows them
dishonourably. There is dishonour in yielding to the evil, or in an evil
manner; but there is honour in yielding to the good, or in an honourable
manner. Evil is the vulgar lover who loves the body rather than the soul,
inasmuch as he is not even stable, because he loves a thing which is in
itself unstable, and therefore when the bloom of youth which he was
desiring is over, he takes wing and flies away, in spite of all his words
and promises; whereas the love of the noble disposition is life-long, for
it becomes one with the everlasting. The custom of our country would have
both of them proven well and truly, and would have us yield to the one
sort of lover and avoid the other, and therefore encourages some to
pursue, and others to fly; testing both the lover and beloved in contests
and trials, until they show to which of the two classes they respectively
belong. And this is the reason why, in the first place, a hasty attachment
is held to be dishonourable, because time is the true test of this as of
most other things; and secondly there is a dishonour in being overcome by
the love of money, or of wealth, or of political power, whether a man is
frightened into surrender by the loss of them, or, having experienced the
benefits of money and political corruption, is unable to rise above the
seductions of them. For none of these things are of a permanent or lasting
nature; not to mention that no generous friendship ever sprang from them.
There remains, then, only one way of honourable attachment which custom
allows in the beloved, and this is the way of virtue; for as we admitted
that any service which the lover does to him is not to be accounted
flattery or a dishonour to himself, so the beloved has one way only of
voluntary service which is not dishonourable, and this is virtuous
service.</p>
<p>For we have a custom, and according to our custom any one who does service
to another under the idea that he will be improved by him either in
wisdom, or in some other particular of virtue—such a voluntary
service, I say, is not to be regarded as a dishonour, and is not open to
the charge of flattery. And these two customs, one the love of youth, and
the other the practice of philosophy and virtue in general, ought to meet
in one, and then the beloved may honourably indulge the lover. For when
the lover and beloved come together, having each of them a law, and the
lover thinks that he is right in doing any service which he can to his
gracious loving one; and the other that he is right in showing any
kindness which he can to him who is making him wise and good; the one
capable of communicating wisdom and virtue, the other seeking to acquire
them with a view to education and wisdom, when the two laws of love are
fulfilled and meet in one—then, and then only, may the beloved yield
with honour to the lover. Nor when love is of this disinterested sort is
there any disgrace in being deceived, but in every other case there is
equal disgrace in being or not being deceived. For he who is gracious to
his lover under the impression that he is rich, and is disappointed of his
gains because he turns out to be poor, is disgraced all the same: for he
has done his best to show that he would give himself up to any one's 'uses
base' for the sake of money; but this is not honourable. And on the same
principle he who gives himself to a lover because he is a good man, and in
the hope that he will be improved by his company, shows himself to be
virtuous, even though the object of his affection turn out to be a
villain, and to have no virtue; and if he is deceived he has committed a
noble error. For he has proved that for his part he will do anything for
anybody with a view to virtue and improvement, than which there can be
nothing nobler. Thus noble in every case is the acceptance of another for
the sake of virtue. This is that love which is the love of the heavenly
godess, and is heavenly, and of great price to individuals and cities,
making the lover and the beloved alike eager in the work of their own
improvement. But all other loves are the offspring of the other, who is
the common goddess. To you, Phaedrus, I offer this my contribution in
praise of love, which is as good as I could make extempore.</p>
<p>Pausanias came to a pause—this is the balanced way in which I have
been taught by the wise to speak; and Aristodemus said that the turn of
Aristophanes was next, but either he had eaten too much, or from some
other cause he had the hiccough, and was obliged to change turns with
Eryximachus the physician, who was reclining on the couch below him.
Eryximachus, he said, you ought either to stop my hiccough, or to speak in
my turn until I have left off.</p>
<p>I will do both, said Eryximachus: I will speak in your turn, and do you
speak in mine; and while I am speaking let me recommend you to hold your
breath, and if after you have done so for some time the hiccough is no
better, then gargle with a little water; and if it still continues, tickle
your nose with something and sneeze; and if you sneeze once or twice, even
the most violent hiccough is sure to go. I will do as you prescribe, said
Aristophanes, and now get on.</p>
<p>Eryximachus spoke as follows: Seeing that Pausanias made a fair beginning,
and but a lame ending, I must endeavour to supply his deficiency. I think
that he has rightly distinguished two kinds of love. But my art further
informs me that the double love is not merely an affection of the soul of
man towards the fair, or towards anything, but is to be found in the
bodies of all animals and in productions of the earth, and I may say in
all that is; such is the conclusion which I seem to have gathered from my
own art of medicine, whence I learn how great and wonderful and universal
is the deity of love, whose empire extends over all things, divine as well
as human. And from medicine I will begin that I may do honour to my art.
There are in the human body these two kinds of love, which are confessedly
different and unlike, and being unlike, they have loves and desires which
are unlike; and the desire of the healthy is one, and the desire of the
diseased is another; and as Pausanias was just now saying that to indulge
good men is honourable, and bad men dishonourable:—so too in the
body the good and healthy elements are to be indulged, and the bad
elements and the elements of disease are not to be indulged, but
discouraged. And this is what the physician has to do, and in this the art
of medicine consists: for medicine may be regarded generally as the
knowledge of the loves and desires of the body, and how to satisfy them or
not; and the best physician is he who is able to separate fair love from
foul, or to convert one into the other; and he who knows how to eradicate
and how to implant love, whichever is required, and can reconcile the most
hostile elements in the constitution and make them loving friends, is a
skilful practitioner. Now the most hostile are the most opposite, such as
hot and cold, bitter and sweet, moist and dry, and the like. And my
ancestor, Asclepius, knowing how to implant friendship and accord in these
elements, was the creator of our art, as our friends the poets here tell
us, and I believe them; and not only medicine in every branch but the arts
of gymnastic and husbandry are under his dominion. Any one who pays the
least attention to the subject will also perceive that in music there is
the same reconciliation of opposites; and I suppose that this must have
been the meaning of Heracleitus, although his words are not accurate; for
he says that The One is united by disunion, like the harmony of the bow
and the lyre. Now there is an absurdity saying that harmony is discord or
is composed of elements which are still in a state of discord. But what he
probably meant was, that harmony is composed of differing notes of higher
or lower pitch which disagreed once, but are now reconciled by the art of
music; for if the higher and lower notes still disagreed, there could be
no harmony,—clearly not. For harmony is a symphony, and symphony is
an agreement; but an agreement of disagreements while they disagree there
cannot be; you cannot harmonize that which disagrees. In like manner
rhythm is compounded of elements short and long, once differing and now in
accord; which accordance, as in the former instance, medicine, so in all
these other cases, music implants, making love and unison to grow up among
them; and thus music, too, is concerned with the principles of love in
their application to harmony and rhythm. Again, in the essential nature of
harmony and rhythm there is no difficulty in discerning love which has not
yet become double. But when you want to use them in actual life, either in
the composition of songs or in the correct performance of airs or metres
composed already, which latter is called education, then the difficulty
begins, and the good artist is needed. Then the old tale has to be
repeated of fair and heavenly love—the love of Urania the fair and
heavenly muse, and of the duty of accepting the temperate, and those who
are as yet intemperate only that they may become temperate, and of
preserving their love; and again, of the vulgar Polyhymnia, who must be
used with circumspection that the pleasure be enjoyed, but may not
generate licentiousness; just as in my own art it is a great matter so to
regulate the desires of the epicure that he may gratify his tastes without
the attendant evil of disease. Whence I infer that in music, in medicine,
in all other things human as well as divine, both loves ought to be noted
as far as may be, for they are both present.</p>
<p>The course of the seasons is also full of both these principles; and when,
as I was saying, the elements of hot and cold, moist and dry, attain the
harmonious love of one another and blend in temperance and harmony, they
bring to men, animals, and plants health and plenty, and do them no harm;
whereas the wanton love, getting the upper hand and affecting the seasons
of the year, is very destructive and injurious, being the source of
pestilence, and bringing many other kinds of diseases on animals and
plants; for hoar-frost and hail and blight spring from the excesses and
disorders of these elements of love, which to know in relation to the
revolutions of the heavenly bodies and the seasons of the year is termed
astronomy. Furthermore all sacrifices and the whole province of
divination, which is the art of communion between gods and men—these,
I say, are concerned only with the preservation of the good and the cure
of the evil love. For all manner of impiety is likely to ensue if, instead
of accepting and honouring and reverencing the harmonious love in all his
actions, a man honours the other love, whether in his feelings towards
gods or parents, towards the living or the dead. Wherefore the business of
divination is to see to these loves and to heal them, and divination is
the peacemaker of gods and men, working by a knowledge of the religious or
irreligious tendencies which exist in human loves. Such is the great and
mighty, or rather omnipotent force of love in general. And the love, more
especially, which is concerned with the good, and which is perfected in
company with temperance and justice, whether among gods or men, has the
greatest power, and is the source of all our happiness and harmony, and
makes us friends with the gods who are above us, and with one another. I
dare say that I too have omitted several things which might be said in
praise of Love, but this was not intentional, and you, Aristophanes, may
now supply the omission or take some other line of commendation; for I
perceive that you are rid of the hiccough.</p>
<p>Yes, said Aristophanes, who followed, the hiccough is gone; not, however,
until I applied the sneezing; and I wonder whether the harmony of the body
has a love of such noises and ticklings, for I no sooner applied the
sneezing than I was cured.</p>
<p>Eryximachus said: Beware, friend Aristophanes, although you are going to
speak, you are making fun of me; and I shall have to watch and see whether
I cannot have a laugh at your expense, when you might speak in peace.</p>
<p>You are right, said Aristophanes, laughing. I will unsay my words; but do
you please not to watch me, as I fear that in the speech which I am about
to make, instead of others laughing with me, which is to the manner born
of our muse and would be all the better, I shall only be laughed at by
them.</p>
<p>Do you expect to shoot your bolt and escape, Aristophanes? Well, perhaps
if you are very careful and bear in mind that you will be called to
account, I may be induced to let you off.</p>
<p>Aristophanes professed to open another vein of discourse; he had a mind to
praise Love in another way, unlike that either of Pausanias or
Eryximachus. Mankind, he said, judging by their neglect of him, have
never, as I think, at all understood the power of Love. For if they had
understood him they would surely have built noble temples and altars, and
offered solemn sacrifices in his honour; but this is not done, and most
certainly ought to be done: since of all the gods he is the best friend of
men, the helper and the healer of the ills which are the great impediment
to the happiness of the race. I will try to describe his power to you, and
you shall teach the rest of the world what I am teaching you. In the first
place, let me treat of the nature of man and what has happened to it; for
the original human nature was not like the present, but different. The
sexes were not two as they are now, but originally three in number; there
was man, woman, and the union of the two, having a name corresponding to
this double nature, which had once a real existence, but is now lost, and
the word 'Androgynous' is only preserved as a term of reproach. In the
second place, the primeval man was round, his back and sides forming a
circle; and he had four hands and four feet, one head with two faces,
looking opposite ways, set on a round neck and precisely alike; also four
ears, two privy members, and the remainder to correspond. He could walk
upright as men now do, backwards or forwards as he pleased, and he could
also roll over and over at a great pace, turning on his four hands and
four feet, eight in all, like tumblers going over and over with their legs
in the air; this was when he wanted to run fast. Now the sexes were three,
and such as I have described them; because the sun, moon, and earth are
three; and the man was originally the child of the sun, the woman of the
earth, and the man-woman of the moon, which is made up of sun and earth,
and they were all round and moved round and round like their parents.
Terrible was their might and strength, and the thoughts of their hearts
were great, and they made an attack upon the gods; of them is told the
tale of Otys and Ephialtes who, as Homer says, dared to scale heaven, and
would have laid hands upon the gods. Doubt reigned in the celestial
councils. Should they kill them and annihilate the race with thunderbolts,
as they had done the giants, then there would be an end of the sacrifices
and worship which men offered to them; but, on the other hand, the gods
could not suffer their insolence to be unrestrained. At last, after a good
deal of reflection, Zeus discovered a way. He said: 'Methinks I have a
plan which will humble their pride and improve their manners; men shall
continue to exist, but I will cut them in two and then they will be
diminished in strength and increased in numbers; this will have the
advantage of making them more profitable to us. They shall walk upright on
two legs, and if they continue insolent and will not be quiet, I will
split them again and they shall hop about on a single leg.' He spoke and
cut men in two, like a sorb-apple which is halved for pickling, or as you
might divide an egg with a hair; and as he cut them one after another, he
bade Apollo give the face and the half of the neck a turn in order that
the man might contemplate the section of himself: he would thus learn a
lesson of humility. Apollo was also bidden to heal their wounds and
compose their forms. So he gave a turn to the face and pulled the skin
from the sides all over that which in our language is called the belly,
like the purses which draw in, and he made one mouth at the centre, which
he fastened in a knot (the same which is called the navel); he also
moulded the breast and took out most of the wrinkles, much as a shoemaker
might smooth leather upon a last; he left a few, however, in the region of
the belly and navel, as a memorial of the primeval state. After the
division the two parts of man, each desiring his other half, came
together, and throwing their arms about one another, entwined in mutual
embraces, longing to grow into one, they were on the point of dying from
hunger and self-neglect, because they did not like to do anything apart;
and when one of the halves died and the other survived, the survivor
sought another mate, man or woman as we call them,—being the
sections of entire men or women,—and clung to that. They were being
destroyed, when Zeus in pity of them invented a new plan: he turned the
parts of generation round to the front, for this had not been always their
position, and they sowed the seed no longer as hitherto like grasshoppers
in the ground, but in one another; and after the transposition the male
generated in the female in order that by the mutual embraces of man and
woman they might breed, and the race might continue; or if man came to man
they might be satisfied, and rest, and go their ways to the business of
life: so ancient is the desire of one another which is implanted in us,
reuniting our original nature, making one of two, and healing the state of
man. Each of us when separated, having one side only, like a flat fish, is
but the indenture of a man, and he is always looking for his other half.
Men who are a section of that double nature which was once called
Androgynous are lovers of women; adulterers are generally of this breed,
and also adulterous women who lust after men: the women who are a section
of the woman do not care for men, but have female attachments; the female
companions are of this sort. But they who are a section of the male follow
the male, and while they are young, being slices of the original man, they
hang about men and embrace them, and they are themselves the best of boys
and youths, because they have the most manly nature. Some indeed assert
that they are shameless, but this is not true; for they do not act thus
from any want of shame, but because they are valiant and manly, and have a
manly countenance, and they embrace that which is like them. And these
when they grow up become our statesmen, and these only, which is a great
proof of the truth of what I am saving. When they reach manhood they are
lovers of youth, and are not naturally inclined to marry or beget
children,—if at all, they do so only in obedience to the law; but
they are satisfied if they may be allowed to live with one another
unwedded; and such a nature is prone to love and ready to return love,
always embracing that which is akin to him. And when one of them meets
with his other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of
youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of
love and friendship and intimacy, and one will not be out of the other's
sight, as I may say, even for a moment: these are the people who pass
their whole lives together; yet they could not explain what they desire of
one another. For the intense yearning which each of them has towards the
other does not appear to be the desire of lover's intercourse, but of
something else which the soul of either evidently desires and cannot tell,
and of which she has only a dark and doubtful presentiment. Suppose
Hephaestus, with his instruments, to come to the pair who are lying side
by side and to say to them, 'What do you people want of one another?' they
would be unable to explain. And suppose further, that when he saw their
perplexity he said: 'Do you desire to be wholly one; always day and night
to be in one another's company? for if this is what you desire, I am ready
to melt you into one and let you grow together, so that being two you
shall become one, and while you live live a common life as if you were a
single man, and after your death in the world below still be one departed
soul instead of two—I ask whether this is what you lovingly desire,
and whether you are satisfied to attain this?'—there is not a man of
them who when he heard the proposal would deny or would not acknowledge
that this meeting and melting into one another, this becoming one instead
of two, was the very expression of his ancient need (compare Arist. Pol.).
And the reason is that human nature was originally one and we were a
whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is called love. There was a
time, I say, when we were one, but now because of the wickedness of
mankind God has dispersed us, as the Arcadians were dispersed into
villages by the Lacedaemonians (compare Arist. Pol.). And if we are not
obedient to the gods, there is a danger that we shall be split up again
and go about in basso-relievo, like the profile figures having only half a
nose which are sculptured on monuments, and that we shall be like tallies.
Wherefore let us exhort all men to piety, that we may avoid evil, and
obtain the good, of which Love is to us the lord and minister; and let no
one oppose him—he is the enemy of the gods who opposes him. For if
we are friends of the God and at peace with him we shall find our own true
loves, which rarely happens in this world at present. I am serious, and
therefore I must beg Eryximachus not to make fun or to find any allusion
in what I am saying to Pausanias and Agathon, who, as I suspect, are both
of the manly nature, and belong to the class which I have been describing.
But my words have a wider application—they include men and women
everywhere; and I believe that if our loves were perfectly accomplished,
and each one returning to his primeval nature had his original true love,
then our race would be happy. And if this would be best of all, the best
in the next degree and under present circumstances must be the nearest
approach to such an union; and that will be the attainment of a congenial
love. Wherefore, if we would praise him who has given to us the benefit,
we must praise the god Love, who is our greatest benefactor, both leading
us in this life back to our own nature, and giving us high hopes for the
future, for he promises that if we are pious, he will restore us to our
original state, and heal us and make us happy and blessed. This,
Eryximachus, is my discourse of love, which, although different to yours,
I must beg you to leave unassailed by the shafts of your ridicule, in
order that each may have his turn; each, or rather either, for Agathon and
Socrates are the only ones left.</p>
<p>Indeed, I am not going to attack you, said Eryximachus, for I thought your
speech charming, and did I not know that Agathon and Socrates are masters
in the art of love, I should be really afraid that they would have nothing
to say, after the world of things which have been said already. But, for
all that, I am not without hopes.</p>
<p>Socrates said: You played your part well, Eryximachus; but if you were as
I am now, or rather as I shall be when Agathon has spoken, you would,
indeed, be in a great strait.</p>
<p>You want to cast a spell over me, Socrates, said Agathon, in the hope that
I may be disconcerted at the expectation raised among the audience that I
shall speak well.</p>
<p>I should be strangely forgetful, Agathon replied Socrates, of the courage
and magnanimity which you showed when your own compositions were about to
be exhibited, and you came upon the stage with the actors and faced the
vast theatre altogether undismayed, if I thought that your nerves could be
fluttered at a small party of friends.</p>
<p>Do you think, Socrates, said Agathon, that my head is so full of the
theatre as not to know how much more formidable to a man of sense a few
good judges are than many fools?</p>
<p>Nay, replied Socrates, I should be very wrong in attributing to you,
Agathon, that or any other want of refinement. And I am quite aware that
if you happened to meet with any whom you thought wise, you would care for
their opinion much more than for that of the many. But then we, having
been a part of the foolish many in the theatre, cannot be regarded as the
select wise; though I know that if you chanced to be in the presence, not
of one of ourselves, but of some really wise man, you would be ashamed of
disgracing yourself before him—would you not?</p>
<p>Yes, said Agathon.</p>
<p>But before the many you would not be ashamed, if you thought that you were
doing something disgraceful in their presence?</p>
<p>Here Phaedrus interrupted them, saying: not answer him, my dear Agathon;
for if he can only get a partner with whom he can talk, especially a
good-looking one, he will no longer care about the completion of our plan.
Now I love to hear him talk; but just at present I must not forget the
encomium on Love which I ought to receive from him and from every one.
When you and he have paid your tribute to the god, then you may talk.</p>
<p>Very good, Phaedrus, said Agathon; I see no reason why I should not
proceed with my speech, as I shall have many other opportunities of
conversing with Socrates. Let me say first how I ought to speak, and then
speak:—</p>
<p>The previous speakers, instead of praising the god Love, or unfolding his
nature, appear to have congratulated mankind on the benefits which he
confers upon them. But I would rather praise the god first, and then speak
of his gifts; this is always the right way of praising everything. May I
say without impiety or offence, that of all the blessed gods he is the
most blessed because he is the fairest and best? And he is the fairest:
for, in the first place, he is the youngest, and of his youth he is
himself the witness, fleeing out of the way of age, who is swift enough,
swifter truly than most of us like:—Love hates him and will not come
near him; but youth and love live and move together—like to like, as
the proverb says. Many things were said by Phaedrus about Love in which I
agree with him; but I cannot agree that he is older than Iapetus and
Kronos:—not so; I maintain him to be the youngest of the gods, and
youthful ever. The ancient doings among the gods of which Hesiod and
Parmenides spoke, if the tradition of them be true, were done of Necessity
and not of Love; had Love been in those days, there would have been no
chaining or mutilation of the gods, or other violence, but peace and
sweetness, as there is now in heaven, since the rule of Love began. Love
is young and also tender; he ought to have a poet like Homer to describe
his tenderness, as Homer says of Ate, that she is a goddess and tender:—</p>
<p>'Her feet are tender, for she sets her steps, Not on the ground but on the
heads of men:'</p>
<p>herein is an excellent proof of her tenderness,—that she walks not
upon the hard but upon the soft. Let us adduce a similar proof of the
tenderness of Love; for he walks not upon the earth, nor yet upon the
skulls of men, which are not so very soft, but in the hearts and souls of
both gods and men, which are of all things the softest: in them he walks
and dwells and makes his home. Not in every soul without exception, for
where there is hardness he departs, where there is softness there he
dwells; and nestling always with his feet and in all manner of ways in the
softest of soft places, how can he be other than the softest of all
things? Of a truth he is the tenderest as well as the youngest, and also
he is of flexile form; for if he were hard and without flexure he could
not enfold all things, or wind his way into and out of every soul of man
undiscovered. And a proof of his flexibility and symmetry of form is his
grace, which is universally admitted to be in an especial manner the
attribute of Love; ungrace and love are always at war with one another.
The fairness of his complexion is revealed by his habitation among the
flowers; for he dwells not amid bloomless or fading beauties, whether of
body or soul or aught else, but in the place of flowers and scents, there
he sits and abides. Concerning the beauty of the god I have said enough;
and yet there remains much more which I might say. Of his virtue I have
now to speak: his greatest glory is that he can neither do nor suffer
wrong to or from any god or any man; for he suffers not by force if he
suffers; force comes not near him, neither when he acts does he act by
force. For all men in all things serve him of their own free will, and
where there is voluntary agreement, there, as the laws which are the lords
of the city say, is justice. And not only is he just but exceedingly
temperate, for Temperance is the acknowledged ruler of the pleasures and
desires, and no pleasure ever masters Love; he is their master and they
are his servants; and if he conquers them he must be temperate indeed. As
to courage, even the God of War is no match for him; he is the captive and
Love is the lord, for love, the love of Aphrodite, masters him, as the
tale runs; and the master is stronger than the servant. And if he conquers
the bravest of all others, he must be himself the bravest. Of his courage
and justice and temperance I have spoken, but I have yet to speak of his
wisdom; and according to the measure of my ability I must try to do my
best. In the first place he is a poet (and here, like Eryximachus, I
magnify my art), and he is also the source of poesy in others, which he
could not be if he were not himself a poet. And at the touch of him every
one becomes a poet, even though he had no music in him before (A fragment
of the Sthenoaoea of Euripides.); this also is a proof that Love is a good
poet and accomplished in all the fine arts; for no one can give to another
that which he has not himself, or teach that of which he has no knowledge.
Who will deny that the creation of the animals is his doing? Are they not
all the works of his wisdom, born and begotten of him? And as to the
artists, do we not know that he only of them whom love inspires has the
light of fame?—he whom Love touches not walks in darkness. The arts
of medicine and archery and divination were discovered by Apollo, under
the guidance of love and desire; so that he too is a disciple of Love.
Also the melody of the Muses, the metallurgy of Hephaestus, the weaving of
Athene, the empire of Zeus over gods and men, are all due to Love, who was
the inventor of them. And so Love set in order the empire of the gods—the
love of beauty, as is evident, for with deformity Love has no concern. In
the days of old, as I began by saying, dreadful deeds were done among the
gods, for they were ruled by Necessity; but now since the birth of Love,
and from the Love of the beautiful, has sprung every good in heaven and
earth. Therefore, Phaedrus, I say of Love that he is the fairest and best
in himself, and the cause of what is fairest and best in all other things.
And there comes into my mind a line of poetry in which he is said to be
the god who</p>
<p>'Gives peace on earth and calms the stormy deep, Who stills the winds and
bids the sufferer sleep.'</p>
<p>This is he who empties men of disaffection and fills them with affection,
who makes them to meet together at banquets such as these: in sacrifices,
feasts, dances, he is our lord—who sends courtesy and sends away
discourtesy, who gives kindness ever and never gives unkindness; the
friend of the good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the gods;
desired by those who have no part in him, and precious to those who have
the better part in him; parent of delicacy, luxury, desire, fondness,
softness, grace; regardful of the good, regardless of the evil: in every
word, work, wish, fear—saviour, pilot, comrade, helper; glory of
gods and men, leader best and brightest: in whose footsteps let every man
follow, sweetly singing in his honour and joining in that sweet strain
with which love charms the souls of gods and men. Such is the speech,
Phaedrus, half-playful, yet having a certain measure of seriousness,
which, according to my ability, I dedicate to the god.</p>
<p>When Agathon had done speaking, Aristodemus said that there was a general
cheer; the young man was thought to have spoken in a manner worthy of
himself, and of the god. And Socrates, looking at Eryximachus, said: Tell
me, son of Acumenus, was there not reason in my fears? and was I not a
true prophet when I said that Agathon would make a wonderful oration, and
that I should be in a strait?</p>
<p>The part of the prophecy which concerns Agathon, replied Eryximachus,
appears to me to be true; but not the other part—that you will be in
a strait.</p>
<p>Why, my dear friend, said Socrates, must not I or any one be in a strait
who has to speak after he has heard such a rich and varied discourse? I am
especially struck with the beauty of the concluding words—who could
listen to them without amazement? When I reflected on the immeasurable
inferiority of my own powers, I was ready to run away for shame, if there
had been a possibility of escape. For I was reminded of Gorgias, and at
the end of his speech I fancied that Agathon was shaking at me the
Gorginian or Gorgonian head of the great master of rhetoric, which was
simply to turn me and my speech into stone, as Homer says (Odyssey), and
strike me dumb. And then I perceived how foolish I had been in consenting
to take my turn with you in praising love, and saying that I too was a
master of the art, when I really had no conception how anything ought to
be praised. For in my simplicity I imagined that the topics of praise
should be true, and that this being presupposed, out of the true the
speaker was to choose the best and set them forth in the best manner. And
I felt quite proud, thinking that I knew the nature of true praise, and
should speak well. Whereas I now see that the intention was to attribute
to Love every species of greatness and glory, whether really belonging to
him or not, without regard to truth or falsehood—that was no matter;
for the original proposal seems to have been not that each of you should
really praise Love, but only that you should appear to praise him. And so
you attribute to Love every imaginable form of praise which can be
gathered anywhere; and you say that 'he is all this,' and 'the cause of
all that,' making him appear the fairest and best of all to those who know
him not, for you cannot impose upon those who know him. And a noble and
solemn hymn of praise have you rehearsed. But as I misunderstood the
nature of the praise when I said that I would take my turn, I must beg to
be absolved from the promise which I made in ignorance, and which (as
Euripides would say (Eurip. Hyppolytus)) was a promise of the lips and not
of the mind. Farewell then to such a strain: for I do not praise in that
way; no, indeed, I cannot. But if you like to hear the truth about love, I
am ready to speak in my own manner, though I will not make myself
ridiculous by entering into any rivalry with you. Say then, Phaedrus,
whether you would like to have the truth about love, spoken in any words
and in any order which may happen to come into my mind at the time. Will
that be agreeable to you?</p>
<p>Aristodemus said that Phaedrus and the company bid him speak in any manner
which he thought best. Then, he added, let me have your permission first
to ask Agathon a few more questions, in order that I may take his
admissions as the premisses of my discourse.</p>
<p>I grant the permission, said Phaedrus: put your questions. Socrates then
proceeded as follows:—</p>
<p>In the magnificent oration which you have just uttered, I think that you
were right, my dear Agathon, in proposing to speak of the nature of Love
first and afterwards of his works—that is a way of beginning which I
very much approve. And as you have spoken so eloquently of his nature, may
I ask you further, Whether love is the love of something or of nothing?
And here I must explain myself: I do not want you to say that love is the
love of a father or the love of a mother—that would be ridiculous;
but to answer as you would, if I asked is a father a father of something?
to which you would find no difficulty in replying, of a son or daughter:
and the answer would be right.</p>
<p>Very true, said Agathon.</p>
<p>And you would say the same of a mother?</p>
<p>He assented.</p>
<p>Yet let me ask you one more question in order to illustrate my meaning: Is
not a brother to be regarded essentially as a brother of something?</p>
<p>Certainly, he replied.</p>
<p>That is, of a brother or sister?</p>
<p>Yes, he said.</p>
<p>And now, said Socrates, I will ask about Love:—Is Love of something
or of nothing?</p>
<p>Of something, surely, he replied.</p>
<p>Keep in mind what this is, and tell me what I want to know—whether
Love desires that of which love is.</p>
<p>Yes, surely.</p>
<p>And does he possess, or does he not possess, that which he loves and
desires?</p>
<p>Probably not, I should say.</p>
<p>Nay, replied Socrates, I would have you consider whether 'necessarily' is
not rather the word. The inference that he who desires something is in
want of something, and that he who desires nothing is in want of nothing,
is in my judgment, Agathon, absolutely and necessarily true. What do you
think?</p>
<p>I agree with you, said Agathon.</p>
<p>Very good. Would he who is great, desire to be great, or he who is strong,
desire to be strong?</p>
<p>That would be inconsistent with our previous admissions.</p>
<p>True. For he who is anything cannot want to be that which he is?</p>
<p>Very true.</p>
<p>And yet, added Socrates, if a man being strong desired to be strong, or
being swift desired to be swift, or being healthy desired to be healthy,
in that case he might be thought to desire something which he already has
or is. I give the example in order that we may avoid misconception. For
the possessors of these qualities, Agathon, must be supposed to have their
respective advantages at the time, whether they choose or not; and who can
desire that which he has? Therefore, when a person says, I am well and
wish to be well, or I am rich and wish to be rich, and I desire simply to
have what I have—to him we shall reply: 'You, my friend, having
wealth and health and strength, want to have the continuance of them; for
at this moment, whether you choose or no, you have them. And when you say,
I desire that which I have and nothing else, is not your meaning that you
want to have what you now have in the future?' He must agree with us—must
he not?</p>
<p>He must, replied Agathon.</p>
<p>Then, said Socrates, he desires that what he has at present may be
preserved to him in the future, which is equivalent to saying that he
desires something which is non-existent to him, and which as yet he has
not got:</p>
<p>Very true, he said.</p>
<p>Then he and every one who desires, desires that which he has not already,
and which is future and not present, and which he has not, and is not, and
of which he is in want;—these are the sort of things which love and
desire seek?</p>
<p>Very true, he said.</p>
<p>Then now, said Socrates, let us recapitulate the argument. First, is not
love of something, and of something too which is wanting to a man?</p>
<p>Yes, he replied.</p>
<p>Remember further what you said in your speech, or if you do not remember I
will remind you: you said that the love of the beautiful set in order the
empire of the gods, for that of deformed things there is no love—did
you not say something of that kind?</p>
<p>Yes, said Agathon.</p>
<p>Yes, my friend, and the remark was a just one. And if this is true, Love
is the love of beauty and not of deformity?</p>
<p>He assented.</p>
<p>And the admission has been already made that Love is of something which a
man wants and has not?</p>
<p>True, he said.</p>
<p>Then Love wants and has not beauty?</p>
<p>Certainly, he replied.</p>
<p>And would you call that beautiful which wants and does not possess beauty?</p>
<p>Certainly not.</p>
<p>Then would you still say that love is beautiful?</p>
<p>Agathon replied: I fear that I did not understand what I was saying.</p>
<p>You made a very good speech, Agathon, replied Socrates; but there is yet
one small question which I would fain ask:—Is not the good also the
beautiful?</p>
<p>Yes.</p>
<p>Then in wanting the beautiful, love wants also the good?</p>
<p>I cannot refute you, Socrates, said Agathon:—Let us assume that what
you say is true.</p>
<p>Say rather, beloved Agathon, that you cannot refute the truth; for
Socrates is easily refuted.</p>
<p>And now, taking my leave of you, I would rehearse a tale of love which I
heard from Diotima of Mantineia (compare 1 Alcibiades), a woman wise in
this and in many other kinds of knowledge, who in the days of old, when
the Athenians offered sacrifice before the coming of the plague, delayed
the disease ten years. She was my instructress in the art of love, and I
shall repeat to you what she said to me, beginning with the admissions
made by Agathon, which are nearly if not quite the same which I made to
the wise woman when she questioned me: I think that this will be the
easiest way, and I shall take both parts myself as well as I can (compare
Gorgias). As you, Agathon, suggested (supra), I must speak first of the
being and nature of Love, and then of his works. First I said to her in
nearly the same words which he used to me, that Love was a mighty god, and
likewise fair; and she proved to me as I proved to him that, by my own
showing, Love was neither fair nor good. 'What do you mean, Diotima,' I
said, 'is love then evil and foul?' 'Hush,' she cried; 'must that be foul
which is not fair?' 'Certainly,' I said. 'And is that which is not wise,
ignorant? do you not see that there is a mean between wisdom and
ignorance?' 'And what may that be?' I said. 'Right opinion,' she replied;
'which, as you know, being incapable of giving a reason, is not knowledge
(for how can knowledge be devoid of reason? nor again, ignorance, for
neither can ignorance attain the truth), but is clearly something which is
a mean between ignorance and wisdom.' 'Quite true,' I replied. 'Do not
then insist,' she said, 'that what is not fair is of necessity foul, or
what is not good evil; or infer that because love is not fair and good he
is therefore foul and evil; for he is in a mean between them.' 'Well,' I
said, 'Love is surely admitted by all to be a great god.' 'By those who
know or by those who do not know?' 'By all.' 'And how, Socrates,' she said
with a smile, 'can Love be acknowledged to be a great god by those who say
that he is not a god at all?' 'And who are they?' I said. 'You and I are
two of them,' she replied. 'How can that be?' I said. 'It is quite
intelligible,' she replied; 'for you yourself would acknowledge that the
gods are happy and fair—of course you would—would you dare to
say that any god was not?' 'Certainly not,' I replied. 'And you mean by
the happy, those who are the possessors of things good or fair?' 'Yes.'
'And you admitted that Love, because he was in want, desires those good
and fair things of which he is in want?' 'Yes, I did.' 'But how can he be
a god who has no portion in what is either good or fair?' 'Impossible.'
'Then you see that you also deny the divinity of Love.'</p>
<p>'What then is Love?' I asked; 'Is he mortal?' 'No.' 'What then?' 'As in
the former instance, he is neither mortal nor immortal, but in a mean
between the two.' 'What is he, Diotima?' 'He is a great spirit (daimon),
and like all spirits he is intermediate between the divine and the
mortal.' 'And what,' I said, 'is his power?' 'He interprets,' she replied,
'between gods and men, conveying and taking across to the gods the prayers
and sacrifices of men, and to men the commands and replies of the gods; he
is the mediator who spans the chasm which divides them, and therefore in
him all is bound together, and through him the arts of the prophet and the
priest, their sacrifices and mysteries and charms, and all prophecy and
incantation, find their way. For God mingles not with man; but through
Love all the intercourse and converse of God with man, whether awake or
asleep, is carried on. The wisdom which understands this is spiritual; all
other wisdom, such as that of arts and handicrafts, is mean and vulgar.
Now these spirits or intermediate powers are many and diverse, and one of
them is Love.' 'And who,' I said, 'was his father, and who his mother?'
'The tale,' she said, 'will take time; nevertheless I will tell you. On
the birthday of Aphrodite there was a feast of the gods, at which the god
Poros or Plenty, who is the son of Metis or Discretion, was one of the
guests. When the feast was over, Penia or Poverty, as the manner is on
such occasions, came about the doors to beg. Now Plenty who was the worse
for nectar (there was no wine in those days), went into the garden of Zeus
and fell into a heavy sleep, and Poverty considering her own straitened
circumstances, plotted to have a child by him, and accordingly she lay
down at his side and conceived Love, who partly because he is naturally a
lover of the beautiful, and because Aphrodite is herself beautiful, and
also because he was born on her birthday, is her follower and attendant.
And as his parentage is, so also are his fortunes. In the first place he
is always poor, and anything but tender and fair, as the many imagine him;
and he is rough and squalid, and has no shoes, nor a house to dwell in; on
the bare earth exposed he lies under the open heaven, in the streets, or
at the doors of houses, taking his rest; and like his mother he is always
in distress. Like his father too, whom he also partly resembles, he is
always plotting against the fair and good; he is bold, enterprising,
strong, a mighty hunter, always weaving some intrigue or other, keen in
the pursuit of wisdom, fertile in resources; a philosopher at all times,
terrible as an enchanter, sorcerer, sophist. He is by nature neither
mortal nor immortal, but alive and flourishing at one moment when he is in
plenty, and dead at another moment, and again alive by reason of his
father's nature. But that which is always flowing in is always flowing
out, and so he is never in want and never in wealth; and, further, he is
in a mean between ignorance and knowledge. The truth of the matter is
this: No god is a philosopher or seeker after wisdom, for he is wise
already; nor does any man who is wise seek after wisdom. Neither do the
ignorant seek after wisdom. For herein is the evil of ignorance, that he
who is neither good nor wise is nevertheless satisfied with himself: he
has no desire for that of which he feels no want.' 'But who then,
Diotima,' I said, 'are the lovers of wisdom, if they are neither the wise
nor the foolish?' 'A child may answer that question,' she replied; 'they
are those who are in a mean between the two; Love is one of them. For
wisdom is a most beautiful thing, and Love is of the beautiful; and
therefore Love is also a philosopher or lover of wisdom, and being a lover
of wisdom is in a mean between the wise and the ignorant. And of this too
his birth is the cause; for his father is wealthy and wise, and his mother
poor and foolish. Such, my dear Socrates, is the nature of the spirit
Love. The error in your conception of him was very natural, and as I
imagine from what you say, has arisen out of a confusion of love and the
beloved, which made you think that love was all beautiful. For the beloved
is the truly beautiful, and delicate, and perfect, and blessed; but the
principle of love is of another nature, and is such as I have described.'</p>
<p>I said, 'O thou stranger woman, thou sayest well; but, assuming Love to be
such as you say, what is the use of him to men?' 'That, Socrates,' she
replied, 'I will attempt to unfold: of his nature and birth I have already
spoken; and you acknowledge that love is of the beautiful. But some one
will say: Of the beautiful in what, Socrates and Diotima?—or rather
let me put the question more clearly, and ask: When a man loves the
beautiful, what does he desire?' I answered her 'That the beautiful may be
his.' 'Still,' she said, 'the answer suggests a further question: What is
given by the possession of beauty?' 'To what you have asked,' I replied,
'I have no answer ready.' 'Then,' she said, 'let me put the word "good" in
the place of the beautiful, and repeat the question once more: If he who
loves loves the good, what is it then that he loves?' 'The possession of
the good,' I said. 'And what does he gain who possesses the good?'
'Happiness,' I replied; 'there is less difficulty in answering that
question.' 'Yes,' she said, 'the happy are made happy by the acquisition
of good things. Nor is there any need to ask why a man desires happiness;
the answer is already final.' 'You are right.' I said. 'And is this wish
and this desire common to all? and do all men always desire their own
good, or only some men?—what say you?' 'All men,' I replied; 'the
desire is common to all.' 'Why, then,' she rejoined, 'are not all men,
Socrates, said to love, but only some of them? whereas you say that all
men are always loving the same things.' 'I myself wonder,' I said, 'why
this is.' 'There is nothing to wonder at,' she replied; 'the reason is
that one part of love is separated off and receives the name of the whole,
but the other parts have other names.' 'Give an illustration,' I said. She
answered me as follows: 'There is poetry, which, as you know, is complex
and manifold. All creation or passage of non-being into being is poetry or
making, and the processes of all art are creative; and the masters of arts
are all poets or makers.' 'Very true.' 'Still,' she said, 'you know that
they are not called poets, but have other names; only that portion of the
art which is separated off from the rest, and is concerned with music and
metre, is termed poetry, and they who possess poetry in this sense of the
word are called poets.' 'Very true,' I said. 'And the same holds of love.
For you may say generally that all desire of good and happiness is only
the great and subtle power of love; but they who are drawn towards him by
any other path, whether the path of money-making or gymnastics or
philosophy, are not called lovers—the name of the whole is
appropriated to those whose affection takes one form only—they alone
are said to love, or to be lovers.' 'I dare say,' I replied, 'that you are
right.' 'Yes,' she added, 'and you hear people say that lovers are seeking
for their other half; but I say that they are seeking neither for the half
of themselves, nor for the whole, unless the half or the whole be also a
good. And they will cut off their own hands and feet and cast them away,
if they are evil; for they love not what is their own, unless perchance
there be some one who calls what belongs to him the good, and what belongs
to another the evil. For there is nothing which men love but the good. Is
there anything?' 'Certainly, I should say, that there is nothing.' 'Then,'
she said, 'the simple truth is, that men love the good.' 'Yes,' I said.
'To which must be added that they love the possession of the good?' 'Yes,
that must be added.' 'And not only the possession, but the everlasting
possession of the good?' 'That must be added too.' 'Then love,' she said,
'may be described generally as the love of the everlasting possession of
the good?' 'That is most true.'</p>
<p>'Then if this be the nature of love, can you tell me further,' she said,
'what is the manner of the pursuit? what are they doing who show all this
eagerness and heat which is called love? and what is the object which they
have in view? Answer me.' 'Nay, Diotima,' I replied, 'if I had known, I
should not have wondered at your wisdom, neither should I have come to
learn from you about this very matter.' 'Well,' she said, 'I will teach
you:—The object which they have in view is birth in beauty, whether
of body or soul.' 'I do not understand you,' I said; 'the oracle requires
an explanation.' 'I will make my meaning clearer,' she replied. 'I mean to
say, that all men are bringing to the birth in their bodies and in their
souls. There is a certain age at which human nature is desirous of
procreation—procreation which must be in beauty and not in
deformity; and this procreation is the union of man and woman, and is a
divine thing; for conception and generation are an immortal principle in
the mortal creature, and in the inharmonious they can never be. But the
deformed is always inharmonious with the divine, and the beautiful
harmonious. Beauty, then, is the destiny or goddess of parturition who
presides at birth, and therefore, when approaching beauty, the conceiving
power is propitious, and diffusive, and benign, and begets and bears
fruit: at the sight of ugliness she frowns and contracts and has a sense
of pain, and turns away, and shrivels up, and not without a pang refrains
from conception. And this is the reason why, when the hour of conception
arrives, and the teeming nature is full, there is such a flutter and
ecstasy about beauty whose approach is the alleviation of the pain of
travail. For love, Socrates, is not, as you imagine, the love of the
beautiful only.' 'What then?' 'The love of generation and of birth in
beauty.' 'Yes,' I said. 'Yes, indeed,' she replied. 'But why of
generation?' 'Because to the mortal creature, generation is a sort of
eternity and immortality,' she replied; 'and if, as has been already
admitted, love is of the everlasting possession of the good, all men will
necessarily desire immortality together with good: Wherefore love is of
immortality.'</p>
<p>All this she taught me at various times when she spoke of love. And I
remember her once saying to me, 'What is the cause, Socrates, of love, and
the attendant desire? See you not how all animals, birds, as well as
beasts, in their desire of procreation, are in agony when they take the
infection of love, which begins with the desire of union; whereto is added
the care of offspring, on whose behalf the weakest are ready to battle
against the strongest even to the uttermost, and to die for them, and will
let themselves be tormented with hunger or suffer anything in order to
maintain their young. Man may be supposed to act thus from reason; but why
should animals have these passionate feelings? Can you tell me why?' Again
I replied that I did not know. She said to me: 'And do you expect ever to
become a master in the art of love, if you do not know this?' 'But I have
told you already, Diotima, that my ignorance is the reason why I come to
you; for I am conscious that I want a teacher; tell me then the cause of
this and of the other mysteries of love.' 'Marvel not,' she said, 'if you
believe that love is of the immortal, as we have several times
acknowledged; for here again, and on the same principle too, the mortal
nature is seeking as far as is possible to be everlasting and immortal:
and this is only to be attained by generation, because generation always
leaves behind a new existence in the place of the old. Nay even in the
life of the same individual there is succession and not absolute unity: a
man is called the same, and yet in the short interval which elapses
between youth and age, and in which every animal is said to have life and
identity, he is undergoing a perpetual process of loss and reparation—hair,
flesh, bones, blood, and the whole body are always changing. Which is true
not only of the body, but also of the soul, whose habits, tempers,
opinions, desires, pleasures, pains, fears, never remain the same in any
one of us, but are always coming and going; and equally true of knowledge,
and what is still more surprising to us mortals, not only do the sciences
in general spring up and decay, so that in respect of them we are never
the same; but each of them individually experiences a like change. For
what is implied in the word "recollection," but the departure of
knowledge, which is ever being forgotten, and is renewed and preserved by
recollection, and appears to be the same although in reality new,
according to that law of succession by which all mortal things are
preserved, not absolutely the same, but by substitution, the old worn-out
mortality leaving another new and similar existence behind—unlike
the divine, which is always the same and not another? And in this way,
Socrates, the mortal body, or mortal anything, partakes of immortality;
but the immortal in another way. Marvel not then at the love which all men
have of their offspring; for that universal love and interest is for the
sake of immortality.'</p>
<p>I was astonished at her words, and said: 'Is this really true, O thou wise
Diotima?' And she answered with all the authority of an accomplished
sophist: 'Of that, Socrates, you may be assured;—think only of the
ambition of men, and you will wonder at the senselessness of their ways,
unless you consider how they are stirred by the love of an immortality of
fame. They are ready to run all risks greater far than they would have run
for their children, and to spend money and undergo any sort of toil, and
even to die, for the sake of leaving behind them a name which shall be
eternal. Do you imagine that Alcestis would have died to save Admetus, or
Achilles to avenge Patroclus, or your own Codrus in order to preserve the
kingdom for his sons, if they had not imagined that the memory of their
virtues, which still survives among us, would be immortal? Nay,' she said,
'I am persuaded that all men do all things, and the better they are the
more they do them, in hope of the glorious fame of immortal virtue; for
they desire the immortal.</p>
<p>'Those who are pregnant in the body only, betake themselves to women and
beget children—this is the character of their love; their offspring,
as they hope, will preserve their memory and giving them the blessedness
and immortality which they desire in the future. But souls which are
pregnant—for there certainly are men who are more creative in their
souls than in their bodies—conceive that which is proper for the
soul to conceive or contain. And what are these conceptions?—wisdom
and virtue in general. And such creators are poets and all artists who are
deserving of the name inventor. But the greatest and fairest sort of
wisdom by far is that which is concerned with the ordering of states and
families, and which is called temperance and justice. And he who in youth
has the seed of these implanted in him and is himself inspired, when he
comes to maturity desires to beget and generate. He wanders about seeking
beauty that he may beget offspring—for in deformity he will beget
nothing—and naturally embraces the beautiful rather than the
deformed body; above all when he finds a fair and noble and well-nurtured
soul, he embraces the two in one person, and to such an one he is full of
speech about virtue and the nature and pursuits of a good man; and he
tries to educate him; and at the touch of the beautiful which is ever
present to his memory, even when absent, he brings forth that which he had
conceived long before, and in company with him tends that which he brings
forth; and they are married by a far nearer tie and have a closer
friendship than those who beget mortal children, for the children who are
their common offspring are fairer and more immortal. Who, when he thinks
of Homer and Hesiod and other great poets, would not rather have their
children than ordinary human ones? Who would not emulate them in the
creation of children such as theirs, which have preserved their memory and
given them everlasting glory? Or who would not have such children as
Lycurgus left behind him to be the saviours, not only of Lacedaemon, but
of Hellas, as one may say? There is Solon, too, who is the revered father
of Athenian laws; and many others there are in many other places, both
among Hellenes and barbarians, who have given to the world many noble
works, and have been the parents of virtue of every kind; and many temples
have been raised in their honour for the sake of children such as theirs;
which were never raised in honour of any one, for the sake of his mortal
children.</p>
<p>'These are the lesser mysteries of love, into which even you, Socrates,
may enter; to the greater and more hidden ones which are the crown of
these, and to which, if you pursue them in a right spirit, they will lead,
I know not whether you will be able to attain. But I will do my utmost to
inform you, and do you follow if you can. For he who would proceed aright
in this matter should begin in youth to visit beautiful forms; and first,
if he be guided by his instructor aright, to love one such form only—out
of that he should create fair thoughts; and soon he will of himself
perceive that the beauty of one form is akin to the beauty of another; and
then if beauty of form in general is his pursuit, how foolish would he be
not to recognize that the beauty in every form is and the same! And when
he perceives this he will abate his violent love of the one, which he will
despise and deem a small thing, and will become a lover of all beautiful
forms; in the next stage he will consider that the beauty of the mind is
more honourable than the beauty of the outward form. So that if a virtuous
soul have but a little comeliness, he will be content to love and tend
him, and will search out and bring to the birth thoughts which may improve
the young, until he is compelled to contemplate and see the beauty of
institutions and laws, and to understand that the beauty of them all is of
one family, and that personal beauty is a trifle; and after laws and
institutions he will go on to the sciences, that he may see their beauty,
being not like a servant in love with the beauty of one youth or man or
institution, himself a slave mean and narrow-minded, but drawing towards
and contemplating the vast sea of beauty, he will create many fair and
noble thoughts and notions in boundless love of wisdom; until on that
shore he grows and waxes strong, and at last the vision is revealed to him
of a single science, which is the science of beauty everywhere. To this I
will proceed; please to give me your very best attention:</p>
<p>'He who has been instructed thus far in the things of love, and who has
learned to see the beautiful in due order and succession, when he comes
toward the end will suddenly perceive a nature of wondrous beauty (and
this, Socrates, is the final cause of all our former toils)—a nature
which in the first place is everlasting, not growing and decaying, or
waxing and waning; secondly, not fair in one point of view and foul in
another, or at one time or in one relation or at one place fair, at
another time or in another relation or at another place foul, as if fair
to some and foul to others, or in the likeness of a face or hands or any
other part of the bodily frame, or in any form of speech or knowledge, or
existing in any other being, as for example, in an animal, or in heaven,
or in earth, or in any other place; but beauty absolute, separate, simple,
and everlasting, which without diminution and without increase, or any
change, is imparted to the ever-growing and perishing beauties of all
other things. He who from these ascending under the influence of true
love, begins to perceive that beauty, is not far from the end. And the
true order of going, or being led by another, to the things of love, is to
begin from the beauties of earth and mount upwards for the sake of that
other beauty, using these as steps only, and from one going on to two, and
from two to all fair forms, and from fair forms to fair practices, and
from fair practices to fair notions, until from fair notions he arrives at
the notion of absolute beauty, and at last knows what the essence of
beauty is. This, my dear Socrates,' said the stranger of Mantineia, 'is
that life above all others which man should live, in the contemplation of
beauty absolute; a beauty which if you once beheld, you would see not to
be after the measure of gold, and garments, and fair boys and youths,
whose presence now entrances you; and you and many a one would be content
to live seeing them only and conversing with them without meat or drink,
if that were possible—you only want to look at them and to be with
them. But what if man had eyes to see the true beauty—the divine
beauty, I mean, pure and clear and unalloyed, not clogged with the
pollutions of mortality and all the colours and vanities of human life—thither
looking, and holding converse with the true beauty simple and divine?
Remember how in that communion only, beholding beauty with the eye of the
mind, he will be enabled to bring forth, not images of beauty, but
realities (for he has hold not of an image but of a reality), and bringing
forth and nourishing true virtue to become the friend of God and be
immortal, if mortal man may. Would that be an ignoble life?'</p>
<p>Such, Phaedrus—and I speak not only to you, but to all of you—were
the words of Diotima; and I am persuaded of their truth. And being
persuaded of them, I try to persuade others, that in the attainment of
this end human nature will not easily find a helper better than love: And
therefore, also, I say that every man ought to honour him as I myself
honour him, and walk in his ways, and exhort others to do the same, and
praise the power and spirit of love according to the measure of my ability
now and ever.</p>
<p>The words which I have spoken, you, Phaedrus, may call an encomium of
love, or anything else which you please.</p>
<p>When Socrates had done speaking, the company applauded, and Aristophanes
was beginning to say something in answer to the allusion which Socrates
had made to his own speech, when suddenly there was a great knocking at
the door of the house, as of revellers, and the sound of a flute-girl was
heard. Agathon told the attendants to go and see who were the intruders.
'If they are friends of ours,' he said, 'invite them in, but if not, say
that the drinking is over.' A little while afterwards they heard the voice
of Alcibiades resounding in the court; he was in a great state of
intoxication, and kept roaring and shouting 'Where is Agathon? Lead me to
Agathon,' and at length, supported by the flute-girl and some of his
attendants, he found his way to them. 'Hail, friends,' he said, appearing
at the door crowned with a massive garland of ivy and violets, his head
flowing with ribands. 'Will you have a very drunken man as a companion of
your revels? Or shall I crown Agathon, which was my intention in coming,
and go away? For I was unable to come yesterday, and therefore I am here
to-day, carrying on my head these ribands, that taking them from my own
head, I may crown the head of this fairest and wisest of men, as I may be
allowed to call him. Will you laugh at me because I am drunk? Yet I know
very well that I am speaking the truth, although you may laugh. But first
tell me; if I come in shall we have the understanding of which I spoke
(supra Will you have a very drunken man? etc.)? Will you drink with me or
not?'</p>
<p>The company were vociferous in begging that he would take his place among
them, and Agathon specially invited him. Thereupon he was led in by the
people who were with him; and as he was being led, intending to crown
Agathon, he took the ribands from his own head and held them in front of
his eyes; he was thus prevented from seeing Socrates, who made way for
him, and Alcibiades took the vacant place between Agathon and Socrates,
and in taking the place he embraced Agathon and crowned him. Take off his
sandals, said Agathon, and let him make a third on the same couch.</p>
<p>By all means; but who makes the third partner in our revels? said
Alcibiades, turning round and starting up as he caught sight of Socrates.
By Heracles, he said, what is this? here is Socrates always lying in wait
for me, and always, as his way is, coming out at all sorts of unsuspected
places: and now, what have you to say for yourself, and why are you lying
here, where I perceive that you have contrived to find a place, not by a
joker or lover of jokes, like Aristophanes, but by the fairest of the
company?</p>
<p>Socrates turned to Agathon and said: I must ask you to protect me,
Agathon; for the passion of this man has grown quite a serious matter to
me. Since I became his admirer I have never been allowed to speak to any
other fair one, or so much as to look at them. If I do, he goes wild with
envy and jealousy, and not only abuses me but can hardly keep his hands
off me, and at this moment he may do me some harm. Please to see to this,
and either reconcile me to him, or, if he attempts violence, protect me,
as I am in bodily fear of his mad and passionate attempts.</p>
<p>There can never be reconciliation between you and me, said Alcibiades; but
for the present I will defer your chastisement. And I must beg you,
Agathon, to give me back some of the ribands that I may crown the
marvellous head of this universal despot—I would not have him
complain of me for crowning you, and neglecting him, who in conversation
is the conqueror of all mankind; and this not only once, as you were the
day before yesterday, but always. Whereupon, taking some of the ribands,
he crowned Socrates, and again reclined.</p>
<p>Then he said: You seem, my friends, to be sober, which is a thing not to
be endured; you must drink—for that was the agreement under which I
was admitted—and I elect myself master of the feast until you are
well drunk. Let us have a large goblet, Agathon, or rather, he said,
addressing the attendant, bring me that wine-cooler. The wine-cooler which
had caught his eye was a vessel holding more than two quarts—this he
filled and emptied, and bade the attendant fill it again for Socrates.
Observe, my friends, said Alcibiades, that this ingenious trick of mine
will have no effect on Socrates, for he can drink any quantity of wine and
not be at all nearer being drunk. Socrates drank the cup which the
attendant filled for him.</p>
<p>Eryximachus said: What is this, Alcibiades? Are we to have neither
conversation nor singing over our cups; but simply to drink as if we were
thirsty?</p>
<p>Alcibiades replied: Hail, worthy son of a most wise and worthy sire!</p>
<p>The same to you, said Eryximachus; but what shall we do?</p>
<p>That I leave to you, said Alcibiades.</p>
<p>'The wise physician skilled our wounds to heal (from Pope's Homer, Il.)'</p>
<p>shall prescribe and we will obey. What do you want?</p>
<p>Well, said Eryximachus, before you appeared we had passed a resolution
that each one of us in turn should make a speech in praise of love, and as
good a one as he could: the turn was passed round from left to right; and
as all of us have spoken, and you have not spoken but have well drunken,
you ought to speak, and then impose upon Socrates any task which you
please, and he on his right hand neighbour, and so on.</p>
<p>That is good, Eryximachus, said Alcibiades; and yet the comparison of a
drunken man's speech with those of sober men is hardly fair; and I should
like to know, sweet friend, whether you really believe what Socrates was
just now saying; for I can assure you that the very reverse is the fact,
and that if I praise any one but himself in his presence, whether God or
man, he will hardly keep his hands off me.</p>
<p>For shame, said Socrates.</p>
<p>Hold your tongue, said Alcibiades, for by Poseidon, there is no one else
whom I will praise when you are of the company.</p>
<p>Well then, said Eryximachus, if you like praise Socrates.</p>
<p>What do you think, Eryximachus? said Alcibiades: shall I attack him and
inflict the punishment before you all?</p>
<p>What are you about? said Socrates; are you going to raise a laugh at my
expense? Is that the meaning of your praise?</p>
<p>I am going to speak the truth, if you will permit me.</p>
<p>I not only permit, but exhort you to speak the truth.</p>
<p>Then I will begin at once, said Alcibiades, and if I say anything which is
not true, you may interrupt me if you will, and say 'that is a lie,'
though my intention is to speak the truth. But you must not wonder if I
speak any how as things come into my mind; for the fluent and orderly
enumeration of all your singularities is not a task which is easy to a man
in my condition.</p>
<p>And now, my boys, I shall praise Socrates in a figure which will appear to
him to be a caricature, and yet I speak, not to make fun of him, but only
for the truth's sake. I say, that he is exactly like the busts of Silenus,
which are set up in the statuaries' shops, holding pipes and flutes in
their mouths; and they are made to open in the middle, and have images of
gods inside them. I say also that he is like Marsyas the satyr. You
yourself will not deny, Socrates, that your face is like that of a satyr.
Aye, and there is a resemblance in other points too. For example, you are
a bully, as I can prove by witnesses, if you will not confess. And are you
not a flute-player? That you are, and a performer far more wonderful than
Marsyas. He indeed with instruments used to charm the souls of men by the
power of his breath, and the players of his music do so still: for the
melodies of Olympus (compare Arist. Pol.) are derived from Marsyas who
taught them, and these, whether they are played by a great master or by a
miserable flute-girl, have a power which no others have; they alone
possess the soul and reveal the wants of those who have need of gods and
mysteries, because they are divine. But you produce the same effect with
your words only, and do not require the flute: that is the difference
between you and him. When we hear any other speaker, even a very good one,
he produces absolutely no effect upon us, or not much, whereas the mere
fragments of you and your words, even at second-hand, and however
imperfectly repeated, amaze and possess the souls of every man, woman, and
child who comes within hearing of them. And if I were not afraid that you
would think me hopelessly drunk, I would have sworn as well as spoken to
the influence which they have always had and still have over me. For my
heart leaps within me more than that of any Corybantian reveller, and my
eyes rain tears when I hear them. And I observe that many others are
affected in the same manner. I have heard Pericles and other great
orators, and I thought that they spoke well, but I never had any similar
feeling; my soul was not stirred by them, nor was I angry at the thought
of my own slavish state. But this Marsyas has often brought me to such a
pass, that I have felt as if I could hardly endure the life which I am
leading (this, Socrates, you will admit); and I am conscious that if I did
not shut my ears against him, and fly as from the voice of the siren, my
fate would be like that of others,—he would transfix me, and I
should grow old sitting at his feet. For he makes me confess that I ought
not to live as I do, neglecting the wants of my own soul, and busying
myself with the concerns of the Athenians; therefore I hold my ears and
tear myself away from him. And he is the only person who ever made me
ashamed, which you might think not to be in my nature, and there is no one
else who does the same. For I know that I cannot answer him or say that I
ought not to do as he bids, but when I leave his presence the love of
popularity gets the better of me. And therefore I run away and fly from
him, and when I see him I am ashamed of what I have confessed to him. Many
a time have I wished that he were dead, and yet I know that I should be
much more sorry than glad, if he were to die: so that I am at my wit's
end.</p>
<p>And this is what I and many others have suffered from the flute-playing of
this satyr. Yet hear me once more while I show you how exact the image is,
and how marvellous his power. For let me tell you; none of you know him;
but I will reveal him to you; having begun, I must go on. See you how fond
he is of the fair? He is always with them and is always being smitten by
them, and then again he knows nothing and is ignorant of all things—such
is the appearance which he puts on. Is he not like a Silenus in this? To
be sure he is: his outer mask is the carved head of the Silenus; but, O my
companions in drink, when he is opened, what temperance there is residing
within! Know you that beauty and wealth and honour, at which the many
wonder, are of no account with him, and are utterly despised by him: he
regards not at all the persons who are gifted with them; mankind are
nothing to him; all his life is spent in mocking and flouting at them. But
when I opened him, and looked within at his serious purpose, I saw in him
divine and golden images of such fascinating beauty that I was ready to do
in a moment whatever Socrates commanded: they may have escaped the
observation of others, but I saw them. Now I fancied that he was seriously
enamoured of my beauty, and I thought that I should therefore have a grand
opportunity of hearing him tell what he knew, for I had a wonderful
opinion of the attractions of my youth. In the prosecution of this design,
when I next went to him, I sent away the attendant who usually accompanied
me (I will confess the whole truth, and beg you to listen; and if I speak
falsely, do you, Socrates, expose the falsehood). Well, he and I were
alone together, and I thought that when there was nobody with us, I should
hear him speak the language which lovers use to their loves when they are
by themselves, and I was delighted. Nothing of the sort; he conversed as
usual, and spent the day with me and then went away. Afterwards I
challenged him to the palaestra; and he wrestled and closed with me
several times when there was no one present; I fancied that I might
succeed in this manner. Not a bit; I made no way with him. Lastly, as I
had failed hitherto, I thought that I must take stronger measures and
attack him boldly, and, as I had begun, not give him up, but see how
matters stood between him and me. So I invited him to sup with me, just as
if he were a fair youth, and I a designing lover. He was not easily
persuaded to come; he did, however, after a while accept the invitation,
and when he came the first time, he wanted to go away at once as soon as
supper was over, and I had not the face to detain him. The second time,
still in pursuance of my design, after we had supped, I went on conversing
far into the night, and when he wanted to go away, I pretended that the
hour was late and that he had much better remain. So he lay down on the
couch next to me, the same on which he had supped, and there was no one
but ourselves sleeping in the apartment. All this may be told without
shame to any one. But what follows I could hardly tell you if I were
sober. Yet as the proverb says, 'In vino veritas,' whether with boys, or
without them (In allusion to two proverbs.); and therefore I must speak.
Nor, again, should I be justified in concealing the lofty actions of
Socrates when I come to praise him. Moreover I have felt the serpent's
sting; and he who has suffered, as they say, is willing to tell his
fellow-sufferers only, as they alone will be likely to understand him, and
will not be extreme in judging of the sayings or doings which have been
wrung from his agony. For I have been bitten by a more than viper's tooth;
I have known in my soul, or in my heart, or in some other part, that worst
of pangs, more violent in ingenuous youth than any serpent's tooth, the
pang of philosophy, which will make a man say or do anything. And you whom
I see around me, Phaedrus and Agathon and Eryximachus and Pausanias and
Aristodemus and Aristophanes, all of you, and I need not say Socrates
himself, have had experience of the same madness and passion in your
longing after wisdom. Therefore listen and excuse my doings then and my
sayings now. But let the attendants and other profane and unmannered
persons close up the doors of their ears.</p>
<p>When the lamp was put out and the servants had gone away, I thought that I
must be plain with him and have no more ambiguity. So I gave him a shake,
and I said: 'Socrates, are you asleep?' 'No,' he said. 'Do you know what I
am meditating? 'What are you meditating?' he said. 'I think,' I replied,
'that of all the lovers whom I have ever had you are the only one who is
worthy of me, and you appear to be too modest to speak. Now I feel that I
should be a fool to refuse you this or any other favour, and therefore I
come to lay at your feet all that I have and all that my friends have, in
the hope that you will assist me in the way of virtue, which I desire
above all things, and in which I believe that you can help me better than
any one else. And I should certainly have more reason to be ashamed of
what wise men would say if I were to refuse a favour to such as you, than
of what the world, who are mostly fools, would say of me if I granted it.'
To these words he replied in the ironical manner which is so
characteristic of him:—'Alcibiades, my friend, you have indeed an
elevated aim if what you say is true, and if there really is in me any
power by which you may become better; truly you must see in me some rare
beauty of a kind infinitely higher than any which I see in you. And
therefore, if you mean to share with me and to exchange beauty for beauty,
you will have greatly the advantage of me; you will gain true beauty in
return for appearance—like Diomede, gold in exchange for brass. But
look again, sweet friend, and see whether you are not deceived in me. The
mind begins to grow critical when the bodily eye fails, and it will be a
long time before you get old.' Hearing this, I said: 'I have told you my
purpose, which is quite serious, and do you consider what you think best
for you and me.' 'That is good,' he said; 'at some other time then we will
consider and act as seems best about this and about other matters.'
Whereupon, I fancied that he was smitten, and that the words which I had
uttered like arrows had wounded him, and so without waiting to hear more I
got up, and throwing my coat about him crept under his threadbare cloak,
as the time of year was winter, and there I lay during the whole night
having this wonderful monster in my arms. This again, Socrates, will not
be denied by you. And yet, notwithstanding all, he was so superior to my
solicitations, so contemptuous and derisive and disdainful of my beauty—which
really, as I fancied, had some attractions—hear, O judges; for
judges you shall be of the haughty virtue of Socrates—nothing more
happened, but in the morning when I awoke (let all the gods and goddesses
be my witnesses) I arose as from the couch of a father or an elder
brother.</p>
<p>What do you suppose must have been my feelings, after this rejection, at
the thought of my own dishonour? And yet I could not help wondering at his
natural temperance and self-restraint and manliness. I never imagined that
I could have met with a man such as he is in wisdom and endurance. And
therefore I could not be angry with him or renounce his company, any more
than I could hope to win him. For I well knew that if Ajax could not be
wounded by steel, much less he by money; and my only chance of captivating
him by my personal attractions had failed. So I was at my wit's end; no
one was ever more hopelessly enslaved by another. All this happened before
he and I went on the expedition to Potidaea; there we messed together, and
I had the opportunity of observing his extraordinary power of sustaining
fatigue. His endurance was simply marvellous when, being cut off from our
supplies, we were compelled to go without food—on such occasions,
which often happen in time of war, he was superior not only to me but to
everybody; there was no one to be compared to him. Yet at a festival he
was the only person who had any real powers of enjoyment; though not
willing to drink, he could if compelled beat us all at that,—wonderful
to relate! no human being had ever seen Socrates drunk; and his powers, if
I am not mistaken, will be tested before long. His fortitude in enduring
cold was also surprising. There was a severe frost, for the winter in that
region is really tremendous, and everybody else either remained indoors,
or if they went out had on an amazing quantity of clothes, and were well
shod, and had their feet swathed in felt and fleeces: in the midst of
this, Socrates with his bare feet on the ice and in his ordinary dress
marched better than the other soldiers who had shoes, and they looked
daggers at him because he seemed to despise them.</p>
<p>I have told you one tale, and now I must tell you another, which is worth
hearing,</p>
<p>'Of the doings and sufferings of the enduring man'</p>
<p>while he was on the expedition. One morning he was thinking about
something which he could not resolve; he would not give it up, but
continued thinking from early dawn until noon—there he stood fixed
in thought; and at noon attention was drawn to him, and the rumour ran
through the wondering crowd that Socrates had been standing and thinking
about something ever since the break of day. At last, in the evening after
supper, some Ionians out of curiosity (I should explain that this was not
in winter but in summer), brought out their mats and slept in the open air
that they might watch him and see whether he would stand all night. There
he stood until the following morning; and with the return of light he
offered up a prayer to the sun, and went his way (compare supra). I will
also tell, if you please—and indeed I am bound to tell—of his
courage in battle; for who but he saved my life? Now this was the
engagement in which I received the prize of valour: for I was wounded and
he would not leave me, but he rescued me and my arms; and he ought to have
received the prize of valour which the generals wanted to confer on me
partly on account of my rank, and I told them so, (this, again, Socrates
will not impeach or deny), but he was more eager than the generals that I
and not he should have the prize. There was another occasion on which his
behaviour was very remarkable—in the flight of the army after the
battle of Delium, where he served among the heavy-armed,—I had a
better opportunity of seeing him than at Potidaea, for I was myself on
horseback, and therefore comparatively out of danger. He and Laches were
retreating, for the troops were in flight, and I met them and told them
not to be discouraged, and promised to remain with them; and there you
might see him, Aristophanes, as you describe (Aristoph. Clouds), just as
he is in the streets of Athens, stalking like a pelican, and rolling his
eyes, calmly contemplating enemies as well as friends, and making very
intelligible to anybody, even from a distance, that whoever attacked him
would be likely to meet with a stout resistance; and in this way he and
his companion escaped—for this is the sort of man who is never
touched in war; those only are pursued who are running away headlong. I
particularly observed how superior he was to Laches in presence of mind.
Many are the marvels which I might narrate in praise of Socrates; most of
his ways might perhaps be paralleled in another man, but his absolute
unlikeness to any human being that is or ever has been is perfectly
astonishing. You may imagine Brasidas and others to have been like
Achilles; or you may imagine Nestor and Antenor to have been like
Pericles; and the same may be said of other famous men, but of this
strange being you will never be able to find any likeness, however remote,
either among men who now are or who ever have been—other than that
which I have already suggested of Silenus and the satyrs; and they
represent in a figure not only himself, but his words. For, although I
forgot to mention this to you before, his words are like the images of
Silenus which open; they are ridiculous when you first hear them; he
clothes himself in language that is like the skin of the wanton satyr—for
his talk is of pack-asses and smiths and cobblers and curriers, and he is
always repeating the same things in the same words (compare Gorg.), so
that any ignorant or inexperienced person might feel disposed to laugh at
him; but he who opens the bust and sees what is within will find that they
are the only words which have a meaning in them, and also the most divine,
abounding in fair images of virtue, and of the widest comprehension, or
rather extending to the whole duty of a good and honourable man.</p>
<p>This, friends, is my praise of Socrates. I have added my blame of him for
his ill-treatment of me; and he has ill-treated not only me, but Charmides
the son of Glaucon, and Euthydemus the son of Diocles, and many others in
the same way—beginning as their lover he has ended by making them
pay their addresses to him. Wherefore I say to you, Agathon, 'Be not
deceived by him; learn from me and take warning, and do not be a fool and
learn by experience, as the proverb says.'</p>
<p>When Alcibiades had finished, there was a laugh at his outspokenness; for
he seemed to be still in love with Socrates. You are sober, Alcibiades,
said Socrates, or you would never have gone so far about to hide the
purpose of your satyr's praises, for all this long story is only an
ingenious circumlocution, of which the point comes in by the way at the
end; you want to get up a quarrel between me and Agathon, and your notion
is that I ought to love you and nobody else, and that you and you only
ought to love Agathon. But the plot of this Satyric or Silenic drama has
been detected, and you must not allow him, Agathon, to set us at variance.</p>
<p>I believe you are right, said Agathon, and I am disposed to think that his
intention in placing himself between you and me was only to divide us; but
he shall gain nothing by that move; for I will go and lie on the couch
next to you.</p>
<p>Yes, yes, replied Socrates, by all means come here and lie on the couch
below me.</p>
<p>Alas, said Alcibiades, how I am fooled by this man; he is determined to
get the better of me at every turn. I do beseech you, allow Agathon to lie
between us.</p>
<p>Certainly not, said Socrates, as you praised me, and I in turn ought to
praise my neighbour on the right, he will be out of order in praising me
again when he ought rather to be praised by me, and I must entreat you to
consent to this, and not be jealous, for I have a great desire to praise
the youth.</p>
<p>Hurrah! cried Agathon, I will rise instantly, that I may be praised by
Socrates.</p>
<p>The usual way, said Alcibiades; where Socrates is, no one else has any
chance with the fair; and now how readily has he invented a specious
reason for attracting Agathon to himself.</p>
<p>Agathon arose in order that he might take his place on the couch by
Socrates, when suddenly a band of revellers entered, and spoiled the order
of the banquet. Some one who was going out having left the door open, they
had found their way in, and made themselves at home; great confusion
ensued, and every one was compelled to drink large quantities of wine.
Aristodemus said that Eryximachus, Phaedrus, and others went away—he
himself fell asleep, and as the nights were long took a good rest: he was
awakened towards daybreak by a crowing of cocks, and when he awoke, the
others were either asleep, or had gone away; there remained only Socrates,
Aristophanes, and Agathon, who were drinking out of a large goblet which
they passed round, and Socrates was discoursing to them. Aristodemus was
only half awake, and he did not hear the beginning of the discourse; the
chief thing which he remembered was Socrates compelling the other two to
acknowledge that the genius of comedy was the same with that of tragedy,
and that the true artist in tragedy was an artist in comedy also. To this
they were constrained to assent, being drowsy, and not quite following the
argument. And first of all Aristophanes dropped off, then, when the day
was already dawning, Agathon. Socrates, having laid them to sleep, rose to
depart; Aristodemus, as his manner was, following him. At the Lyceum he
took a bath, and passed the day as usual. In the evening he retired to
rest at his own home.</p>
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