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<h2> LETTER CXXVII </h2>
<h3> LONDON, January 14, O. S. 1751 </h3>
<p>MY DEAR FRIEND: Among the many good things Mr. Harte has told me of you,
two in particular gave me great pleasure. The first, that you are
exceedingly careful and jealous of the dignity of your character; that is
the sure and solid foundation upon which you must both stand and rise. A
man's moral character is a more delicate thing than a woman's reputation
of chastity. A slip or two may possibly be forgiven her, and her character
may be clarified by subsequent and continued good conduct: but a man's
moral character once tainted is irreparably destroyed. The second was,
that you had acquired a most correct and extensive knowledge of foreign
affairs, such as the history, the treaties, and the forms of government of
the several countries of Europe. This sort of knowledge, little attended
to here, will make you not only useful, but necessary, in your future
destination, and carry you very far. He added that you wanted from hence
some books relative to our laws and constitution, our colonies, and our
commerce; of which you know less than of those of any other part of
Europe. I will send you what short books I can find of that sort, to give
you a general notion of those things: but you cannot have time to go into
their depths at present—you cannot now engage with new folios; you
and I will refer the constitutional part of this country to our meeting
here, when we will enter seriously into it, and read the necessary books
together. In the meantime, go on in the course you are in, of foreign
matters; converse with ministers and others of every country, watch the
transactions of every court, and endeavor to trace them up to their
source. This, with your physics, your geometry, and your exercises, will
be all that you can possibly have time for at Paris; for you must allow a
great deal for company and pleasures: it is they that must give you those
manners, that address, that 'tournure' of the 'beau monde', which will
qualify you for your future destination. You must first please, in order
to get the confidence, and consequently the secrets, of the courts and
ministers for whom and with whom you negotiate.</p>
<p>I will send you by the first opportunity a short book written by Lord
Bolingbroke, under the name of Sir John Oldcastle, containing remarks upon
the history of England; which will give you a clear general notion of our
constitution, and which will serve you, at the same time, like all Lord
Bolingbroke's works, for a model of eloquence and style. I will also send
you Sir Josiah Childe's little book upon trade, which may properly be
called the "Commercial Grammar." He lays down the true principles of
commerce, and his conclusions from them are generally very just.</p>
<p>Since you turn your thoughts a little toward trade and commerce, which I
am very glad you do, I will recommend a French book to you, which you will
easily get at Paris, and which I take to be the best book in the world of
that kind: I mean the 'Dictionnaire de Commerce de Savory', in three
volumes in folio; where you will find every one thing that relates to
trade, commerce, specie, exchange, etc., most clearly stated; and not only
relative to France, but to the whole world. You will easily suppose, that
I do not advise you to read such a book 'tout de suite'; but I only mean
that you should have it at hand, to have recourse to occasionally.</p>
<p>With this great stock of both useful and ornamental knowledge, which you
have already acquired, and which, by your application and industry, you
are daily increasing, you will lay such a solid foundation of future
figure and fortune, that if you complete it by all the accomplishments of
manners, graces, etc., I know nothing which you may not aim at, and in
time hope for. Your great point at present at Paris, to which all other
considerations must give way, is to become entirely a man of fashion: to
be well-bred without ceremony, easy without negligence, steady and
intrepid with modesty, genteel without affectation, insinuating without
meanness, cheerful without being noisy, frank without indiscretion, and
secret without mysteriousness; to know the proper time and place for
whatever you say or do, and to do it with an air of condition all this is
not so soon nor so easily learned as people imagine, but requires
observation and time. The world is an immense folio, which demands a great
deal of time and attention to be read and understood as it ought to be;
you have not yet read above four or five pages of it; and you will have
but barely time to dip now and then in other less important books.</p>
<p>Lord Albemarle has, I know, wrote {It is a pleasure for an ordinary mortal
to find Lord Chesterfield in gramatical error—and he did it again in
the last sentence of this paragraph—but this was 1751? D.W.} to a
friend of his here, that you do not frequent him so much as he expected
and desired; that he fears somebody or other has given you wrong
impressions of him; and that I may possibly think, from your being seldom
at his house, that he has been wanting in his attentions to you. I told
the person who told me this, that, on the contrary, you seemed, by your
letters to me, to be extremely pleased with Lord Albemarle's behavior to
you: but that you were obliged to give up dining abroad during your course
of experimental philosophy. I guessed the true reason, which I believe
was, that, as no French people frequent his house, you rather chose to
dine at other places, where you were likely to meet with better company
than your countrymen and you were in the right of it. However, I would
have you show no shyness to Lord Albemarle, but go to him, and dine with
him oftener than it may be you would wish, for the sake of having him
speak well of you here when he returns. He is a good deal in fashion here,
and his PUFFING you (to use an awkward expression) before you return here,
will be of great use to you afterward. People in general take characters,
as they do most things, upon trust, rather than be at the trouble of
examining them themselves; and the decisions of four or five fashionable
people, in every place, are final, more particularly with regard to
characters, which all can hear, and but few judge of. Do not mention the
least of this to any mortal; and take care that Lord Albemarle do not
suspect that you know anything of the matter.</p>
<p>Lord Huntingdon and Lord Stormount are, I hear, arrived at Paris; you
have, doubtless, seen them. Lord Stormount is well spoken of here;
however, in your connections, if you form any with them, show rather a
preference to Lord Huntingdon, for reasons which you will easily guess.</p>
<p>Mr. Harte goes this week to Cornwall, to take possession of his living; he
has been installed at Windsor; he will return here in about a month, when
your literary correspondence with him will be regularly carried on. Your
mutual concern at parting was a good sign for both.</p>
<p>I have this moment received good accounts of you from Paris. Go on 'vous
etes en bon train'. Adieu.</p>
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