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CHAPTER XII.
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LAST WORDS.
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<p> "By carrying calves Milo, 'tis said, grew strong, <br/>
Until with ease he bore a bull along."</p>
<p>It is, I believe, unquestionable that, if he ever lived, a man who had
attained to absolute control over his own mind, must have been the most enviable
of mortals. MONTAIGNE illustrates such an ideal being by a quotation from
VIRGIL:</p>
<p> "Velut rupes vastum qu� prodit in �quor<br/>
Obvia ventorum furiis, exposta que ponto,<br/>
Vim cunctum atque minas perfert
c�lique marisque <br/>
Ipsa immota manens."</p>
<p> "He as a rock among vast billows stood,<br/>
Scorning loud winds and the wild raging flood,<br/>
And firm remaining, all the force defies,<br/>
From the grim threatening seas and thundering skies."</p>
<p>And MONTAIGNE also doubted whether such self-control was possible. He
remarks of it:</p>
<p>"Let us never attempt these Examples; we shall never come up to them. This
is too much and too rude for our common souls to undergo. CATO indeed gave up
the noblest Life that ever was upon this account, but it is for us meaner
spirited men to fly from the storm as far as we can."</p>
<p>Is it? I may have thought so once, but I begin to believe that in this
darkness a new strange light is beginning to show itself. The victory may be won
far more easily than the rather indolent and timid Essayist ever imagined.
MONTAIGNE, and many more, believed that absolute self-control is only to be
obtained by iron effort, heroic and terrible exertion—a conception based on
bygone History, which is all a record of battles of man against man, or man with
the Devil. Now the world is beginning slowly to make an ideal of peace, and
disbelieve in the Devil. Science is attempting to teach us that from any
beginning, however small, great results are sure to be obtained if resolutely
followed up and fully developed.</p>
<p>It requires thought to realize what a man gifted to some degree with
culture and common sense must enjoy who can review the past without pain, and
regard the present with perfect assurance that come what may he need have no
fear or fluttering of the heart. Spenser has asked in "The Fate of the
Butterfly":</p>
<p> "What more felicity can fall to creature<br/>
Than to enjoy delight with liberty?"</p>
<p>To which one may truly reply that all delight is fitful and uncertain
unless bound or blended with the power to be indifferent to involuntary annoying
emotions, and that self-command is in itself the highest mental pleasure, or one
which surpasses all of any kind. He who does not overestimate the value of money
or anything earthly is really richer than the millionaire. There is a foolish
story told by COMBE in his Physiology of a man who had the supernatural gift of
never feeling any pain, be it from cold, hunger, heat, or accident. The rain
beat upon him in vain, the keenest north wind did not chill him—he was fearless
and free. But this immunity was coupled with an inability to feel pleasure—his
wine or ale was no more to his palate than water, and he could not feel the kiss
of his child; and so we are told that he was soon desirous to become a creature
subject to all physical sensations as before. But it is, as I said, a foolish
tale, because it reduces all that is worth living for to being warm or enjoying
taste. His mind was not affected, but that goes for nothing in such sheer
sensuality. However, a man without losing his tastes or appetites may train his
Will to so master Emotion as to enjoy delight with liberty, and also exclude
what constitutes the majority of all suffering with man.</p>
<p>It is a truth that there is very often an extremely easy, simple and
prosaic way to attain many an end, which has always been supposed to require
stupendous efforts. In an Italian fairy tale a prince besieges a castle with an
army—trumpets blowing, banners waving, and all the pomp and circumstances of
war—to obtain a beautiful heroine who is meanwhile carried away by a rival who
knew of a subterranean passage. Hitherto, as I have already said, men have
sought for self-control only by means of heroic exertion, or by besieging the
castle from without; the simple system of Forethought and Self-Suggestion
enables one, as it were, to steal or slip away with ease by night and in
darkness that fairest of princesses, La Volont�, or the Will.</p>
<p>For he who wills to be equable and indifferent to the small and involuntary
annoyances, teasing memories, irritating trifles, which constitute the chief
trouble in life to most folk, can bring it about, in small measure at first and
in due time to greater perfection. And by perseverance this rivulet may to a
river run, the river fall into a mighty lake, and this in time rush to the
roaring sea; that is to say, from bearing with indifference or quite evading
attacks of <em>ennui,</em> we may come to enduring great afflictions with
little suffering.</p>
<p>Note that I do not say that we can come to bearing all the bereavements,
losses, and trials of life with <em>absolute</em> indifference. Herein
MONTAIGNE and the Stoics of old were well nigh foolish to imagine such an
impossible and indeed undesirable ideal. But it may be that two men are
afflicted by the same domestic loss, and one with a weak nature is well nigh
crushed by it, gives himself up to endless weeping and perhaps never recovers
from it, while another with quite as deep feelings, but far wiser, rallies, and
by vigorous exertion makes the grief a stimulus to exertion, so that while the
former is demoralized, the latter is strengthened. There is an habitual state of
mind by which a man while knowing his losses fully can endure them better than
others, and this endurance will be greatest in him who has already cultivated it
assiduously in minor matters. He who has swam in the river can swim in the sea;
he who can hear a door bang without starting can listen to a cannon without
jumping.</p>
<p>The method which I have described in this book will enable any person
gifted with perseverance to make an equable or calm state of mind habitual,
moderately at first, more so by practice. And when this is attained the
experimenter can progress rapidly in the path. It is precisely the same as in
learning a minor art, the pupil who can design a pattern (which corresponds to
Foresight or plan), only requires, as in wood-carving or repouss�, to be trained
by very easy process to become familiar with the use and feel of the tools,
after which all that remains to be done is to keep on at what the pupil can do
without the least difficulty. Well begun and well run in the end will be well
done.</p>
<p>But glorious and marvelous is the power of him who has habituated himself
by easy exercise of Will to brush away the minor, meaningless and petty cares of
life, such as, however, prey on most of us; for unto him great griefs are no
harder to endure than the getting a coat splashed is to an ordinary man.</p>
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