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<h2>CHAPTER XVII</h2>
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<p><i>A word of Advice to both Sexes, consisting of several
Directions with regard to Copulation</i>.</p>
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<p>As Nature has a mutual desire for copulation in every creature,
for the increase and propagation of its kind, and more especially
in man, <!-- Page 97 --> the
lord of creation and the masterpiece of Nature, in order that such
a noble piece of divine workmanship should not perish, something
ought to be said concerning it, it being the foundation of
everything that we have hitherto been treating of, since without
copulation there can be no generation. Seeing, therefore, so much
depends upon it, I have thought it necessary, before concluding the
first book, to give such directions to both sexes, for the
performance of that act, as may appear efficacious to the end for
which nature designed it, but it will be done with such caution as
not to offend the chastest ear, nor to put the fair sex to the
blush when they read it.</p>
<p>In the first place, then, when a married couple from the desire
of having children are about to make use of those means that Nature
has provided for that purpose, it is well to stimulate the body
with generous restoratives, that it may be active and vigorous. And
the imagination should be charmed with sweet music, and if all care
and thoughts of business be drowned in a glass of rosy wine, so
that their spirit may be raised to the highest pitch of ardour, it
would be as well, for troubles, cares or sadness are enemies to the
pleasures of Venus. And if the woman should conceive when sexual
intercourse takes place at such times of disturbance,
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bad effect upon the child. But though generous restoratives may be
employed for invigorating nature, yet all excess should be
carefully avoided, for it will check the briskness of the spirits
and make them dull and languid, and as it also interferes with
digestion, it must necessarily be an enemy <i>to</i> copulation;
for it is food taken moderately and that is well digested, which
enables a man to perform the dictates of Nature with vigour and
activity, and it is also necessary, that in their mutual embraces
they meet each other with equal ardour, for, if not, the woman
either will not conceive, or else the child may be weak bodily, or
mentally defective. I, therefore, advise them to excite their
desires mutually before they begin their conjugal intercourse, and
when they have done what nature requires, a man must be careful not
to withdraw himself from his wife's arms too soon, lest some sudden
cold should strike into the womb and occasion miscarriage, and so
deprive them of the fruits of their labour.</p>
<p>And when the man has withdrawn himself after a suitable time,
the woman should quietly go to rest, with all calmness and
composure of mind, free from all anxious and disturbing thoughts,
or any other mental worry. And she must, as far as possible, avoid
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from the side on which she was first lying, and also keep from
coughing and sneezing, because as it violently shakes the body, it
is a great enemy to conception.</p>
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